I usually hate to talk to girls on facebook cold. usually ill have a reason but i feel like a creeper otherwise. Like this girl was doind the same sport as me "from a different school". I never got a chance to talk to her but i asked one of the dudes her name and he gave it to me so i found her on facebook. Nothing came of it cause im an idiot but still.

Anyway i was on facebook and i saw this girl in my mutual friends. i couldnt see the pic but she had a weird name so i looked. This girl is pretty hot. Shes a cute little dark asian girl which is my preference.
Anyway i have 3 mutual friends with her (one of whom benig the girl i friended on facebook above).

im trying to decide what course of action to take. She's got like hella dudes commenting on her pics (most are creepy as hell saying like "you're lickable") so im sure shes got a few messaging her. Now i dont want to sound concieted but i know im better than the majority of guys but only thing is im shy at first.

So what course of action would be best to take.
Messaging her something.
Sending her a request and then messaging her a little while after.
Or not doing anything and hoping i run into her in real life (very low chance)

Also i rarely use facebook so ive got nothing interesting going on.

What would you guys do? What message would you send? I tried online dating and even when i got a good conversation nothing came of it so im expecting the same results with this

You lose serious man points when you add girls on Facebook like this and you have to compensate with a lot of work.

Facebook has changed where everybody randomly adds each other and you're in damage control from the moment you friend request her.

Unless you are much better looking than her of course.

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Id say we're about the same. But she'd probably think she's better looking since she gets more attentio from guys. i looked at her again in the morning and she's not as hot as i thought but she's still cute. I may just add her to see what happens.