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Hi Guys, has anyone thought or done this? im not hugely attractive so I struggle with dating sites and apps especially tinder where its a looks based game but I can, given the chance get a good conversation going once the initial contact has been made.

I was wondering if its ok to see someone on tinder and then find them on facebook, with it telling u friends in common its very easy to then go and find them.

wonderd if this is something people do or how would be a good way to then message them "hi I saw you on tinder" without coming across as a stalker or weird although typing that out I can see the answer to my question

anyone got a good game plan for that and/or a template for a message?

curious really, as I said earlier I can get a good conversation but tinder is about them swiping right too and I live in a smaller area so I get "no one new in youre area" quiet often

interested to hear youre thoughts guys

Ask yourself.. would you want a random girl on Tinder to add you to Facebook without ever talking to her? If she did it, you would think, this chick is crazy.

So don't do it. If you game her right, you'll get more than her Facebook.