Some Help guys?

I knew this girl. Saw her recently, and she started facebooking me. I was wondering the right next move.

The last things she said was.

..... maybe you should come shopping with me. we could go to the lunch place on the way and yes, we will play soon. my number s XXXXXXXXXXXXX. ps, i have pictures to show you (of a trip she went on).

This was last thursday. I haven't called her yet. Should I this week or comment back and then call? Any advice on what to say?

I don't want to continue using the same line of jokes just in case it get old...

Thanks for the help.

Grow some cojones and call that number. She didn give it to you for no reason. She did all the dirty work for you. Planned the day, all you have to do is call to confirm and show up.

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You know her personality so use your best judgment, but I never let the girl control the frame (i.e. set the date and time of the meet up or tell me to meet her somewhere). If you look at the sub-com she's essentially asking you to tag along. I'd text/call her but I would take control of the frame (which is much more attractive to women) and come up with something exciting to do and have her bring her pictures and meet you. I think she wants you to take control too...she said "MAYBE you should come shopping with me..." She's just throwing out an idea to communicate she wants to get together. I think the worst thing you can do is call her up with the attitude "When? Where? What time?"

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I called her the other day ( a few days ago) , left a message, just saying we should get together to grab something to eat on Wednesday. She hasn't called me back. I wasn't that interested until she became less "available", ahh, you always want what you can't have... Granted it took me about five days to call her, though I don't think she's playing that game...or is she?

I was debating whether or not to just cut her out of the picture or call her back/text her one more time or just let it be "water under the bridge." Any advice insight is greatly appreciated.

you should have called sooner

she laid out the map for you (no pun intended), all you had to do was go along for the ride! (ahh... no pun intended again! lol)

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You're fine. don't make any desperate moves. she's not going anywhere. Reopen her on facebook in a week with a hook story and then build attraction from there. Demonstrate that you're a chill, cool guy and a ton of fun to hang out with. As far as a hook story for your situation, you could say something like....

Hey brat! omg I think I saw your long lost twin last night…she was dancing and this 6'1 chick started picking on her, so your look-alike decked her right in the throat, it was fkin hilarious! I guess you could be a ninja badass like your twin but from what I remember you're more of a dorky goofball ; ) How's life on planet [Her Name]?


Hope this helps.

-V

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