So as the first message I started trying direct approach on okc. And i read somewhere this message.

"You're attractive and I want to go out with you.

Basically."


And couple of responses i've got are just "Basically". I know this is some kind of shit test but i don't know how to reply back to it doesn't get cold. initially i thought they are maybe just testing that im not copy pasting so i started to talk about their profile and interests but nada! No repsonse!

Any thoughts?

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"A man's attraction to women must be converted from attraction to women to attraction through women."

Basically = No shit.

Reason for no reply to 2nd message:
-She looked at your profile again and decided to ignore you.
-She was being sarcastic to your first message cause you're not her type.

The reason for these results is mainly down to your pictures most likely.

Yeah I'm guessing that pictures thing might be true. Because I get a few visitors but no messages. I don't know what pictures to post. I've experimented. Right Now I have a picture of being silly with a lady hand shotgun on my forehead, the other with fine dining, and with my buddies smiling.

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"A man's attraction to women must be converted from attraction to women to attraction through women."

I agree with OG, because of the initial message, if a girl is slightly intrigued then there's not much for her to go on after your initial message except "yes let's date". Ladies get tonnes of messages on online dating websites so unless you look out-of-this-world amazing in your pictures then the response would be "just another standard guy who's messaging me standard stuff". Plus you've suggested dating without mentioning anything unique about her profile which means you're just going on looks alone, it could work with some girls who want insta-dates but the success rate will be fairly low.

There needs to be something to intrigue her into messaging you back...plus with girls who are a bit more shy it will help them come out of their shell a bit more...how about "want to play a fun game?" and then use any kokology quiz, but keep them short and sweet as attention span online isn't great and the ladies have plenty of other offers .....

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The meaning of life is not simply to exist, to survive. But to move ahead, to go up, to conquer.... - Arnold Schwarzenegger

If you were really good looking this opener might work.

It's very direct. You may as well send her a picture of your dick... (Don't do that. it's just an example).

If you're below a 7 or an 8, or you've got a less-than-stellar profile then this is not going to be all that effective (at least I can't imagine it would be).

Yeah I tried that! I was writing personal messages earlier and pointing out details, but nobody seems to reply! At that point i feel like they were looking for something "funny"!


I don't know I have to find a balance between all this. Sometimes the profile doesn't have enough info to detail your message! I just don't understand this!

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"A man's attraction to women must be converted from attraction to women to attraction through women."

u need to grab their attention, ive been playing about with openers for ages, im about a 7 so i have to hammer messages out to get a reply

I truly believe that for guys that don't have stellar pics, their best bet is to hit the streets and sarge IRL. Instead of having 1 million other guys vying for her attention, you'll have zero.