Hey, been reading a while and usually find an answer. Now I'm totally lost.

I'm in College in the South and am learning to dance. I'm friends with some girls (not interested) that are pretty good dancers. They have a friend that I'm into but I've been icing her out and showing social proof. We all were talking the other day and my friends said they would teach me to dance. She came up to me after and said that she would be a better teacher, I brushed it off saying I trusted the other girls, then she started to establish credibility.

Well tonight my friends came over and we did one dance and then we got way off topic and had a good time not getting anything done.

I text her shortly after

Me - Hey, I need to learn to dance. Blank and Blank were no help. You're up

Her - Haha ok don't worry I got you!

Me - Gracias (Thanks)

Her - El oh el De Nada (It's Nothing)

We're both white by the way.

What does the winky face mean? We have some interaction but not a lot. I usually give her a hard time (negs) but I usually fully engage my friends. I might have gotten some IOI's but I'm not fully there in my game.

What is a good way to respond? I think I might not have gone the right way saying thanks, not sure, critiques and ideas for responses are welcome.

Besides learn to dance when she comes over what should I do? And I really need to learn to dance so that's gonna happen.

Links, personal experience, and advice is welcome.

You're past the stage where you were playing hard to get and now she is coming over to teach you how to dance. All good. Keep things playful; there will be built in kino with this meeting. You can't go wrong.

Thanks for the reply, but I guarantee I can go wrong. Unless we're both drunk I'm terrible at home game. Besides dancing what is she expecting? The wink face threw me off. What should I do to escalate? Keep playful how, I'm that bad also how should I invite her over/setup the meet?

you: "come over to help my dancing still sucks : P"

The wink face means she is flirting.

Try not to be nervous. Relax and let her show you how to dance.

Joke around. Don't take it seriously you're just there to see where things go.

You will already be kino'ing with her (dancing).

Just enjoy it, and don't be outcome-oriented. Let things go where they will naturally.