I've been speaking to a girl who lives in my state and she isn't too far.

We've been talking first on the dating site and now on SPAM and she was spilling out long messages but now that we've agreed to meet on Wednesday (she initiated the invite when I asked if she had seen catfish and she said HOW ABOUT WE MEET UP FOR A FEW?" So it's on.

She even asked if she should be nervous or excited. I joked CF and said I SHOULD be the one to be afraid of you. She even called me that night buy I couldn't speak. Since Friday she hasn't answered the phone to me on two occasions. She also hasn't said anything nice to me either so no indications of interest other than her actions etc. She seems picky which is always good.

She now either barley replies or very short. Is she just trying to not run out of something to say or very nervous?

Probably losing interest. Typically scenario with online dating. Some new guy came along and she has a new toy now. I find it most successful to set a date within 3-4 days after you got her number online. Any longer than that, it's more difficult and too much of a hassle to maintain their interest levels. I have a few 3-4 hrs drive sext buddies, but that's about it. The rest of my dates are within 30 miles radius.

Just be direct next time. No need to dance around since she already agreed to meet up. If she doesn't reply back, brush it off and try again in a few days or next week. If still not, rinse and repeat. I usually give a chick 3 tries before I delete their number.

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Within a day of getting her number she suggested meeting. That was on Friday. I asked her to meet at the weekend and she said she was going bowling with her buddies so she asked what about a day in the week and I said weds.... Last night I asked her to meet me at the bar and she said I finish work at 6 and I said meet me at 9 at this place and she replied ok..... Nothing else.

As long as she's still agreeing to meet wed. i would just carry on, and hit her up on wed saying you'll be a few mins late or whatever just to get her to reply so you don't waste time going to the bar if she isn't going to be there.