Hey there,


I picked this girl up about a year and half ago, but never ended up calling her because I got with another girl. Anyways, I keep running into this girl now and she's playing really hard to get. I got her twitter and FB still but how do I get her to talk or meet up with me since we have "history" now? I don't wanna seem like a creeper if you know what I mean. She's single but not 100% sure.

Anyways, any help is appreciated thank you.

What do you mean by playing hard to get? You're not describing if she's showing some kind of interest. You're not saying what you're doing for her to notice you.

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Sorry my bad not a good description. We'd be texting back and forth for a bit and then she'd just stop. Happened twice so far, and I don't wanna initiate every time and come off as creepy and needy. She might have a bf or somethin like that or she might not be interested. But from running into her in person, I'd say it's not the latter because she wants me to pursue her. Maybe I've telegraphed too much interest.

I've ran into her enough times where I was like "I gotta get this girl." I told her after the second time that I would like to meet her for the third and she kinda played it off. So I got to hint and backed off a bit. Then, a while later I ran into her again, and actually she came up to me and we talked for a bit, and then I seen her around in the club but tried to ignore her. So what it comes down to is that we know each other somewhat and our friends are friends too. This girl is a challenge for me now and I want to prove I can get it haha.

You could slip a note into her locker? Maybe pull her hair and pretend she has cooties?

I'm obviously joking -- but this is total high school shit, man... Not pickup at all.

You're asking how to Facebook creep a girl you used to like and had a bit of history with? Exhausting mental and physical energy hunting for the perfect way to lure this girl in using social media... instead of just calling her, or texting her and saying 'Hi - let's grab a beer'

My advice: Get off of Facebook and grow up. Ask her out like a real man.

If she says yes, wonderful...

If she says no, you've got your answer and you can move on.

I have noticed that a lot of people in this community don't like Facebook. I don't think there's anything wrong with using Facebook for getting girls any more than I think there was anything wrong with using text messages to get girls 10 years ago.

Your situation is by no means unique. Usually, when I am in that kind of situation, I talk to them about how we should hang out sometime, after which I would call them (but I don't generally do that, mainly due to lack of interest on my part).

If a girl on Facebook is playing hard to get, she'll do stuff like completely stand you up or ignore your phone calls and then like one of your posts to make up for it. Depending on how I feel about the girl, I will use standard flake management techniques, ignore for weeks / months, or block her.

You can't "get your answer" on Facebook. There is no walking away. That means a girl isn't going to have sex with you just to keep in contact, and it also means that comfort is higher.

Thanks for your answers. It;s not childish I'm jst describing it bad. I've done the straight up asking and I never got a straight up 'no', thats my point. Nonetheless, you have a point as well. By the way I hate using FB as well and not good at sarging them on there. That's why I wanted to do it in this case maybe learn something.