Ok, so say you got her #, yes! She likes you and after you text you arrange a meet up. Now it's time to actually meet her. I want to do it with value, develop attraction and get her to like me and I sometimes have trouble making a good first impression, considering the first 3-5 minutes is when she decides If she is attracted. So one: how should this be done? I'd like a guideline on it or you can simply explain what works for you. If you go help me out and go into detail, I'd really appreciate it!

I get that the date originally stemmed from meeting online so you put it in this section but this is mostly devoted to while the girl is still talking to you online.

I am going to try not to go to deep here but with Online Game things are a little backwards. Alright you message her and she messages you back. There is some initial attraction there because she has seen your photos, your profile, and you guys have found some stuff in common. There also has to be some rapport built or comfort so that she feels OK about meeting some new guy. In a sense you've already touched on these steps so where does that leave you?

You are almost back at step 2, not one because we know her name and stuff. You need to meet her and start talking about things that you remember from her profile. Do a little crash study session before you go on the date with her and memorize a few things you would like to know more about. Get her talking about her and the rest gets pretty easy. Tell me about horseback riding? I saw in your photo you surf, I've never done it. Then while you can tease, banter, and build some attraction as well.

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Just date as you would normally do a date

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I have an outgoing personality. I am confident and tall enough so I tend to walk up to most of the girls and hug them but I pick them up. It has only made 2 girls out of hundreds uncomfortable, most others found it an ice breaker and demonstrated confidence while building comfort. I have already warmed them up pretty well via text so it doesn't feel like a first date.

I have a post called.. 5 Tips for A Great First Date

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It goes in detail of simple things you can do to ensure you have a successful date.

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My advice for this comes not in the first meeting but rather in the foundation you've laid for that first meeting. In the online space I believe you're wasting your effort entirely if you are not ascertaining whether you and the girl are sexually simpatico. Once that synergy is confirmed, when you ultimately meet her it will be with the reasonable expectation that your date will end in sex. So when chatting online be respectful yet frank in what you like and what you bring to the table sexually. Explain to her that this is an important topic which too many people ignore in the early stages of courtship and discover too late that they're not a good sexual match for each other. If your girl isn't comfortable with this kind of talk then she probably has hang ups and wouldn't be a great match anyway. Just move on. There are many other more qualified girls out there. Once you have found a girl with whom you are synergistic and who has agreed to meet you, then you can stop thinking about creating attraction or making an impression or any other facets of your "game". You can just have a nice conversation over a drink or two then invite her back to your place. Chances are she's already decided to oblige.