Ok, long story short. I'm new to pua & not completely buying in. A friend of mine who kinda plays my wingchick, suggested I read "the game", you all know the book. Now I'm reading "mystery method". Anyway, here's the scoop. I'm a born-again Christian. I don't do clubs for obvious reasons! I hate the idea of more meaningless one night stands! But I've been using what little I've learned to acquire more & better dates hoping for a possible ltr. Now, briefly, I'm divorced, married in my young 20's & currently 37. So kinda new to the entire game. I've been doing online dating & fb. Anyway, I have more confidence, talk smoother and alot funnier now. I still got hung up and suffer from middle game (remember, I'm trying to use this to meet women, not to seduce), but that will come. Now to my question:today I struck up convo with a lady on fb by starting with a poke, when she returned poke, I used the line learned in here, "hey don't you know, you're not supposed to poke strangers, surely your parents tought you better", lol of course it almost always leads to : "you poked me first" I reply you looked safe and pokable so I gambled. Well today she called me out with "uh huh" so I went with slight neg "are you always pessimistic, and I can't believe you already called me liar" lead to short talk & I decided try Style's game of lies. She was in to play the game, but I couldn't figure out how to make that work on fb? Luckily I had escape, a friend called, her grandfather has cancer & she needed to cry. I told fb girl, unfortunately I'd have to do rain check & why. Now that I think about it, can this routine even be done online with any effectiveness at all, if so how? What can be wagered(remember, I don't drink), anyone ever try this online?

Will anyone give me some advice or guidance?

Whether ltr or ons, seduction still plays a key role.

The difference would be in the bond created during the seduction faze.

Obviously, confidence will always be a booster in any sort of relationship. A confident man is always an attractive man.

One of the foundations of an LTR is TRUST between partners, and if your woman doesn't know much about you. Be upfront about your beliefs, and what you are looking for. Relying on canned routines is not who you are, so your going to have to be your natural confident funny self.

Never be afraid of the thoughts of others, be afraid of not being true to who you are. Your own style makes you who you are; don't adopt someone's you’re not.

The only thing that will make you happy is being happy with who you are, and not who people think you are.

Use the forum as a guide to spark ideas that come from within, and the fundamentals of attraction.

When selecting a woman for an LTR you should keep one thing in mind - BE PICKY!!! Settle for nothing less than the best.

Always stick to what YOU want in a woman.

My 2 cents anyway...

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Thanks, Heywood Jablowme. I'm being myself. I just use this stuff to help with communication and as a method of getting women in dates. I am being VERY picky & I'm being honest with them telling them I do EVENTUALLY want a ltr, but I'm taking my time to get there and want to meet/date several women until that happens. But i'm curious, since I do my version of sarging, almost strictly online, can this routine (Style's game of lies) be used effectively online? Anyone ever try it?