Ok I wont post the whole conversation but basically started chatting to a girl on POF who was giving simple answers to everything I asked. Felt it was going no where so I checked her profile and noticed she was a Travel Advisor.

Here is the conversation from then on. Note: she stated she loves beer in the conversation and she loves horses.

Me: I see your a travel advisor, so what is the one place in the world that I need visit.
Her: Hmmm well one of my personal faves has to be Jordan. Everyone needs to go to Petra and Wadi Rum for sure
Me: ah, I see those 3 are pretty much in the same area. so what makes them so good?
Her: It's just magical! Another world
Me: Well I'm sold, when are we going?
Her: When you're paying
Me When are you available?
Her: Anytime
Me: and for the holiday?
Her: haha I like it!
Me:
Well I tell you what, you give me your number so we can arrange this holiday. If the holiday turns out magical, as you say, then I'll buy you a beer . If the holiday turns out crap then I'm trading you for camels.
Her: I get asked out a lot... What can you bring to the table?!
Me: ohh check out the hot-shot in demand eh? I know that type, high maintenance. It's a shame because I think we could have had fun. Never mind, let me know when you've climbed off your high horse!
Her: Ha! I'm the least high maintenance girl you'll ever meet in your life!
Me:Ok I will give you a chance to prove yourself then. Lets have your number and take from there.

She has been online a few times since but no replies so I will give her 24 hours and then after will take it as I blew it. Is this situation recoverable?

You could have replied: Well, I AM SOLD, when are we going? (I am assuming you were not)
Too long. See if you can see it as a 3rd person. You were writing a few words in each sentence up to the point you ask for her no: [however, I definitely like the ending of it-well done]. The way I look at it is that you are in field and talking to HB and suddenly change your voice to get her no- in other words make it more subtle
ohh check out the hot-shot in demand eh? I know that type, high maintenance. That's enough the rest is you explaining yourself- unnecessary
Like the expression climb off your high horse but says the same thing as your first sentence

You are already in the rejection zone you don't want to beg for her no.
Basically don't get logical with her (women's thinking is sometimes completely irrational, commonly called fractionation)
Maybe just ignore her then open her again after a few days.
It was probably too soon to ask for her no. With online game is so hard to calibrate cause you don't see the person's body language.

I don't know if you can recover or not but my response might help you in your future encounters.

Thanks for the reply, will take note for the future.

wow- i'm surprised she messaged you that long! and i mean that in a good way too, i'm impressed

i noticed normally women go one of two ways- either they want a person just to talk to or they want to meet up with the guy

i like to keep the conversation short, if you just match up with her on Tinder or she answers you back on POF that means she IS already attracted to you- go ahead and build a little trust then pull her number- banter is nearly pointless

dating site = tool to find women attracted to you, thats IT!
phone number = tool to meet up with her in person, thats IT!

she is already attracted to you if shes messaging you back and forth, no need to build attraction, build comfort on the date

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