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PostPosted: Wed May 28, 2014 3:59 am 
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Not sure what's going on here but I need a little help please. She stopped responding after the last comment. Did I escalate too far?

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PostPosted: Wed May 28, 2014 11:01 am 
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Not sure what's going on here but I need a little help please. She stopped responding after the last comment. Did I escalate too far?

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dont get how you were even close to "closing"
i wouldnt class a number as closing...

anyway have you even attempted to ask for the number? instead of try-hard gamey fluff that leads to nowhere.


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This is just a stab, you were probably being either too sleazy...or silly. Just my impression, and not an expert's.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 01, 2014 5:47 am 
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Thanks for any input.

This girl opened ME. She sent me a "wink" and I love girls that initiate. She is VERY forward and seems really into me but seems to little effort in talking.

-- Did I do something wrong here?

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Too overtly misogynist, in my opinion. Hint at it, but you assumed too much, and she resented.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2014 2:06 am 
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Too overtly misogynist, in my opinion. Hint at it, but you assumed too much, and she resented.
Did I sexually escalate too much with Olivia? She was VERY upfront and she even opened me but rarely says much?? She lives a few hours away in another state so maybe she's feeling lazy, but why so few words of her if she supposedly; "wants me bad"?

Hasn't responded in 3 days, How do I get her to start talking again?

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2014 10:36 am 
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It's not THAT bad. You just seem to change from fun to overly sexual too fast. Like one time you're talking about how your daughter is going to be named Olivia and seconds later you're talking about spanking. Girls like fantasizing deeply about sexual stuff. You would like to put her in a sexual state gradually. Like asking her what she's wearing first, and then making her imagine how you're going to undress her and feel her body, and only then get into your vicious spanking stuff.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2014 10:45 am 
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Why are you wasting your time with all the fluff talk, if the girl is in to you, you should be trying to get her number by the 2nd or 3rd message.
By prolonging it and investing too much you're just fing yourself up. If you are a good looking guy just keep it simple don't be a clown.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 03, 2014 3:32 pm 
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Beating my face in for messing up this perfect opportunity.

2 days ago I wrote her this. How do I get her to respond back?


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If you message her again it will come off as desperate. Ball is in her court. Move on, next chick. This may or may not text back.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 24, 2014 12:08 pm 
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Well I guess this turned out better than expected. The conversation just seems to go nowhere.

Why would she refuse to give her number but ask for mine?

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Answering messages way too quick sometimes. Wait.... sometimes ever wait a 12 hours or more for a girl you have not even got her number.

I think sometimes you got a little silly. IMO, it's good for messaging but not everyday conversation. Keep things witty in real life and every day chatting too. But if you are like that 60% of the time or more, you will come off as silly.


On the bright side, it looks like you're getting some initial attraction. Keep at it and you'll get better. The more you do it, the better you'll get.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 30, 2014 8:36 pm 
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So why do you think you she ask's for my number right after I asked for hers?


...and how should I go about getting her to talk more? (She is like 200 miles away so maybe that's part of it)

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its quite simple girls need to know that a guys not gonna be clingy before she gives out her number, alot of them have bad historys with guys "not taking a hint" and having to change their phone numbers. dont ask a girl your pursuing this but ask one whose a friend or a family member if they have ever had to change their number most will tell you yes


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Dude stop being weird talking about spanking girls.


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