So a few weeks ago I went out with this girl I number closed off an online site, we texted heavy for 2 weeks before we meet-up in NY. Like it was always Good Morning every morning & Good Night every night, and she was already planning a 2nd date before we had our 1st.

So I usually go to one inexpensive place, and then if I really like the girl I change venue to this bar on an abandoned boat where it faces the NJ side. So we went there and I kiss closed and however the bar closed at midnight. Usually I don’t take girls on a 1st date to a 3rd venue but since we got kicked out, I said we are going to another bar a speakeasy, so as we were walking back to my car and this guy pulls up to me after I opened the passenger door for her , and asks me “If this was our 1st date?” I’m like “Yea” he goes “Damn you open the door for her, You got this bro, You got this bro”, so I grinded and as I got into the driver seat she asked me what he said so I told her she goes “From now on I’m going to text you You got this bro all the time” so we got to the 3rd venue and we made-out and then around 3am I dropped her off home and kissed good night and she told me to text her when I got home, so I did and she texted “I had a great time, and you got this bro”, so then the next day on her FB page I posted a funny You Got This Bro pic.

Then the texting became very sporadic, and I tried to get a 2nd date the following Sat she text within the week that she can’t her dog is sick and she has to take him to the vet and was busy afterwards, and I was busy Fri & Sun so I couldn’t go either days, so I asked for next week (Fri) she said that next week works for her, but then bailed again because her boss’s mother died, and she had to go to the funeral, and I had to go to my buddies Bachelor party (Sat), but when I checked in via FB at some bar in NYC, she text me at 3am saying she was also at the bar but was upstairs for a Bday.

Then I got sent overseas for work for a week and when I got back I texted her if she was free Thur or Fri over MDW, she text me “I’m leaving this weekend…its MDW so I’m thinking of going to visit my friend in Long Island for the weekend. Thur I have an event..I don’t know. It seems were not on the same schedule or something…no one’s fault, but I don’t know.” So I replied probably AFC with “Yup I know, I’m leaving Sat for MDW…Listen I really would like to see you again, so let me know when your free? 

See never replied back!

Yet when I see her posting on FB thru my timeline, she never went to Long Island or anywhere, I don’t get what happened from the 1st date till now, If she didn’t want to see me again she should have said “I’m sorry but I don’t think its going to work out”, I asked my friend he said maybe she didn’t like the kiss, I don’t know…Should I hit her up again? If yes how long should I wait until I should hit her up 2 weeks, 1 month...?

Honestly, I quit reading at "had to got to a funeral for her boss's mother.".

When you start getting excuses like "sick dogs", and "boss's mother's funeral" it's a sure sign she's not interested. To ask why is like asking to solve cancer. Who knows, there are too many variables: someone better came along, she decided she liked boobs better than giving blow jobs... her boss finally showed interest in her... etc...

I think everybody in the forums who has played the game has had this happen. Don't take it personally, and just roll with it. I live by the knowledge there are plenty of other women out there. She was not even worth your time if you had feelings (or even wanted to go out again), and she could not be woman enough to be straight up. Shallow women are a dime a dozen, even cute ones.

+1 - your step = freeze out, move on and go on with life. You will end up finding hotter, more intelligent and beter women than her. If she ever comes back again, go for a casual date and I (personally) would friendzone her at that point and make her work for you.

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too much comfort and rapport before firming up attraction. I dont know how many times I see this same afc mistake. All this texting and rapport building before your date, then the "me too" extended date shenanigans. In the end you weren't seen as any type of challenge, with less then hoped for value, and she lost interest. The fact that you let that guy alpha you, which she figured out and you didn't, made you look like a rube.