Anyone have any tips for the app tinder? I've been striking out hard on this app. I get at least 2 matches every day and can't number close. I usually send out the message "Congrats you have very good taste" and 90% of the time I don't get a response. Please answer back if you have any suggestions.

Tinder is even worse than pof, its not taken seriously by the chicks and they get so many matches that is nigh on impossible to keep their attention.

All I can say is be relentless, just like everybody and see what comes back. Be playful and direct, dont try to have elaborate conversations on it, just get their number asap and get texting/calling.

Got ya thanks, I don't get the point of having the app if you aren't going to hit someone back.

I struck out hard too. I swiped right for every chick, and only got about seven matches I believe. Got one number, though she wasn't all that attractive. I no longer use the app.

I try these apps once in a while, get frustrated and delete it! As I see it, it's something girls use to boost their ego.

I managed to meet up with a very hot girl from Tinder, most of the time seems like a waste of time and the girl forgets you have messaged you most of the time..

I just do it when I'm waiting in a cue or something where I am killing time. It's just a massive numbers game.

A good tip is to not spam the "yes" button, apparently the tinder algorithm rewards when you select the 'no' button..

So basically...use it properly is more beneficial so only select the ones you're attracted too.

On the plus side, when you do get a match, you know it isn't gonna be some troll that you are matched up with.

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Tinder is a waste of time if you are average looking.

Luckily I'm better than average looking but even I've given up now because the flakes:lays ratio was far too high.

The problem with Tinder is that all girls are insecure about their looks and many are on there just to stroke their ego, kind of like that old website amihotornot.com. They have no intention of ever meeting anybody, they just upload selfies to get online attention, just like they do on Facebook to get Likes.

So true I'll have girls message me just stop messaging for no reason. I've only smashed 2 girls from the app but I've had over 50 matches

Online game generally seems like more trouble than its worth......it's a womans game. Social media, dating sites are tailored to boost the female ego.

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In my experience, number close right away, and stay in sexual state. Create a profile that conveys social status, and social proof. I got laid using Tinder several times. I convey myself as a high status male, and will often run patterns via text, though a much shorter version of what you might find at fastseduction. In any event, invite the girl over for a netflix night or to watch a baseball game. If you drink with her, then she is putty in your hands.

I'm actually having a good success rate having first dipped my toe into Tinder around 5 days ago. I'm a pretty good looking guy who doesn't photograph too well but I have a couple of pics which work.

In the last 5 days I've gotten 18 matches and chatted to most. I have 5 numbers a 6th on the way, of which I've agreed drinks in principle with all of them. In fact, I have a date tonight, tomorrow and Thursday all from Tinder. A further Tinder date on Sunday and going to nail down dates with two more at the earliest opportunity. Obviously, I have no idea what the flake rate will be from these 6.

In terms of strategy, I always make a comment someway related to their profile, either a picture or their bio depending on what offers the most intelligent material. As soon as we get chatting I move it within a few messages onto going for a drink, and then as soon as the drink is agreed, I ask for the # and simply say it's easier to arrange a drink via text/call.

Example (Girl had said she was competitive, liked a challenge etc. and asked me to come up with one):

Me: Well I can't come up with a proper challenge until I know what you're capable of, don't want you to feel out of your depth haha. I'll start easy, I challenge you to come for a drink with me and keep me entertained
Her: Hahaha, smooth. You're lucky, I'm not sure my competitive nature will let me turn down that challenge
Me: Good. How does next week sound? Send me your number and we'll sort it out, way easier than Tider.

Next message had her number in it, she was asking for my Twitter, and confirming next week.

Of course it's not measurably easier than Tinder and they know that, but they comply anyway if your opening back and forth isn't totally run of the mill.

Be direct, you both know what you're there for on Tinder and the ambiguity of attraction is already removed, be thoughtful in your initial message and transition to phones as quickly as possible.

Some observations from my limited experience:

Girls tend to me most active late at night.
They will reply over 24 hours late to messages to seem nonchalant
Some girls will just not reply. Either your line wasn't good enough, or they're in it for their ego.

I am failing at this tinder thing miserably. I have probably 300+ matches or so and zero dates forget lays. I got one girl to send me snap chats of her fingering herself. That was cool. I would try to see her but she was just getting off at the idea of it happening and the rebellious act of sending this stuff to random people over snap chat and I would get these random snaps of her getting off in the few days after. Once again, really funny and cool but if I cant actually meet this girl, then its the same thing as porn and is just a tease. Well anyway, my matches are useless because I have failed on every single one of them. The times I would get the most responses to 1st lines are when I would compliment them like I just want you to know that youre beautiful. I would get lots of "thanks your so sweet!" And no matter what I would rarely get anything other than that thank you so not much luck with that opener although I did get a lot of thank you's. Then I would follow up with a question related to their bio (if they have one) or their pictures, making a comment like "where was that picture taken, it looks like a really cool place", or something like that. Then say something like, so I have not met you, but i am curious by nature. tell me something cool about yourself and ill do the same. That line got me a couple responses but girls rarely have ANYTHING cool to say because they are mostly basic bitches. I hate that terminology basic bitch but its so true in todays world lol. If you havent seen the video watch it! So anyway they would say typical stuff, I'm a teacher and I like the beach and my family. I personally dont give a shit what you like, I care about WHO YOU ARE, your personality, but cant seem to get any girl to give me anything that I can relate to besides the typical external stuff rather than the stuff I can actually use to build comfort. Am I supposed to just play along with the stupid boring external details and slowly build it up? I hate that soooo much!

I tried the direct approach just for laughs and curiosity to a bunch of girls. If you are going to do this, make sure you have no mutual friends on facebook which tinder does show. I basically would just send a message short after getting a match late at night, and say hey your 8 miles away according to tinder. I know this is random but we should spend the night together. didnt work... lol... didnt expect it to but its fun to try when you know tinder might be the safest route for directness.

I also tried not complimenting their looks and would mention something in their pics or bios, and would get a much lower success rate than when I did that while including the physical comment. and when I say success rate, I mean a larger rate of conversation per girl.

I feel like I tried everything and nothing works. I have given up, and now am in girl mode and no longer even think aout meeting anyone, just talk to them for fun.

Long story short, nothing worked for me and I had a lotttt of matches. Tinder for girls is just an ego booster. Beware of bots!

If you're getting that many matches and zero lays you are doing something wrong. The problem is you are not being commanding or challenging enough. What makes you different from other guys? Don't just say "I'm not like other guys", show it with your behaviour.

"You're beautiful" is lame and the girl hears it 100 times a day. Question her on something unique about her style. "Spend the night with me" is direct but from your rapport-seeking frame it comes across as needy and desperate. Your goals in game should be step by step. Stop over-thinking about the final destination (sex).

Goals:
1) Build rapport/flirt enough online to get phone number
2) Use number to casually meet in a bar eg. "I'll be at Bar X on Friday night if you care to join me"
3) Kino build sexual tension right off the bat.
4) Venue change to increase comfort and familiarity.
5) Get food or make an excuse to go back to your place. If she insists on going back to hers, get in the taxi with her. Make an excuse to get your foot in the door, eg. "Can I just use your bathroom real quick?" or "Just one more drink, then I'll head home". Then kiss build tension from there and keep escalating until she's so horny she can't say no.
6) Bang.

That's it. The key is to stop thinking about Goal 6) when you haven't even got past Goal 1).

This app must be very age specific. I'm 56, set age range from 35 on up, and have been having GREAT success. Easy to establish contact, quickly get numbers, set up first dates, and screwing by the third date (twice on the first date). Works best for me in the 43-50 age range. I've had weekends where I've slept with a different woman on Friday, Saturday and Sunday.

The only problem is they can get a little clingy, wanting to be exclusive...

If you want to hear anything about my techniques I'm happy to share, but nothing special. You just have to project confidence and also make them laugh.

Do feel free to share with me..

But don't you think your age range is going to be responsible for all those lays?

I'm nearly 30 so the girls I'm looking haven't really been divorced and usually have tons of options. What do you think? I don't mean to sound like a cock about it, by let's be honest, women at that age range want a man and don't play games which probably explains why they are clingy..


My friend suggests to tinder at the Booticall times of the night and then work the meetup for a SNL

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