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PostPosted: Fri Feb 29, 2008 7:22 pm 
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im talking to a girl and she's just said ok to a statement i made after i replied to her

not sure how to move on from it. i have #closed already so its just more comfort building untill i can get a meet out of her


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 8:20 pm 
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You're 100% right its more comfort building. Whether you do that online, over the phone, or in person. So just like if she was sitting across from you and you said something. She said, "Okay." I would cut off that thread and find something else to talk about. I also highly suggest calling her.

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Again I humbly disagree with jsmooth. I hope this doesn't get to be a habit bro ;)

The infamous "ok" reply or any one-word/short sentence reply means her attraction temperature has fallen. When you're in the comfort stage online you MUST keep her attraction up too. This means building comfort but also adding in push/pull bits every now and then and playful teases. Sounds like things have gotten a little stale. You need to bring her back to how she felt when you got her number. A good shock-value story usually does the trick. For example, "omg I saw the funniest thing today..." and end it with a question.

I cant see the convo for myself, so if you believe there's still solid attraction you can just go for another comfort bit. Just make sure it have a question at the end and an easy reason for her to reciprocate a decent reply. Off the top of my head you could say...

"Hey goofball! A bunch of us are going skydiving and you popped into my head...I have no clue whhy but it was a little annoying, so whatever spell you put on me I want it off! Now! You ever notice how there are some people who think they're open-minded and adventurous...and they make all these great plans about meeting new people, or going on a diet, or taking a cool trip. But then they don't...they just sit around doing the same boring shit, over and over again. Are you like that?"

Also, if your phone game isnt good you can get the meet up without ever even calling her....you have to seed the meet up in a message like jsmooth pointed out in the facebook thread, then just use text to handle logistics. But if you're good on the phone then definitely call her.

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 2:10 am 
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hmmm well this girl is hard to talk to...she leaves me random messages when im offline and i reply to them and she dnt reply...she comes online dnt say hello...but then the next day she will...grrrrr


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I think she is shit testing you. Next time she leaves you messages when your offline. Don't reply. If you want to qualify her then do it. Next time your online and when she messages tell her your busy.

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