When you communicate with someone
What you say is 7%
Your tone is 38%
Your body language is 55%

So with just text you're only conveying 7% of your personality. Just seems unpractical.

Im not a big believer in this theoy/calculation. But i know the point they are making.
Your right i can be v.hard or impossible for them to see the real you and how you come accross through text. Unless they met you before and you write it the way you would say it. Some people dont have very good grammer and typing skills so they appear different to what they are actually like in person. Also people can take things the wrong way with text, that they be fine with and understand in person.

To be honest I never genuinely game online. Apart from everything else it's just too much hassle to make arrangements to meet the person you're speaking to. Why bother when there are plenty of perfectly good women to be met simply by going for coffee or a walk through town? I do find messaging sites perfect, though, for practicing new ideas... just a thought

That is what the weekend is for. During the week my main focus is my school work and in my off time i play games and go on myspace/facebook. Might as well put it to good use.

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I'd rather go out swinging than strike out looking.
A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

I tried online sarging and replying to classified ads once and i dont think to much of it. I met one girl through a dating site once, she was really hot, but had no personality. So the date was'nt that great, but by far not the worst date i've ever had. Anyway i invited myself back to her place that night, so it could'nt of been that bad.
I feel the same, why fuck about online with dogdey chicks, when you could just go out on the street and get a date with a hot girl in seconds.
Online is a waste of time.

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To effectively communicate, we must realise that we are all different in the way we percieve the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.

I posted a post(how redundant) about expression and NLP in text in the the new NLP Seduction area. Go check it out, it will help fix the problem in this topic.

Yet at the same time.. your profile is doing so much work for you it is unbelievable..


My pictures tell all my DHV stories for me- and I stand out from every other guy messaging her because i know how to make her laugh and want to engage me back...

In person and online are just different, but both VERY EFFECTIVE.

I saw some good points in this thread.

I've been using online to get girls for awhile because i dont have a license and i used to live in NH. I have met some of the hottest girls through online. You can kind of build how you want to appear to them when they cant see you face to face. i dont mean something that you arent, i just mean you can enhance the positive things about you in her head before you even meet, if done right, by the time she meets you in person she already feels like she knows you. i posted one of the convos i f'closed last week with a 20 yo hb8.5 (twice) lol

this is a little off topice but classic none the less.

the hb8.5 started to get a little clingy, calling and texting a lot, telling me how much she liked me (we only hung out twice before i had her in my bed naked and beggin for more) so i got really afc on her, saying that she could move in with me etc (we had known each other a total of 5 days so far including from when i sent "are you wearing a wig" to her) she immidiately started talking about things might be moving too fast, etc etc, but i didnt want to quite let her go yet (she was incredible in bed, and so tight, great head, etc) so i say to her "you know, i think you are right, i should really rethink why i like you so much, it hasnt been that long.... you know what you are right, maybe we should take a break" lol, like taking candy from a baby, she came back with "no, no, i didnt mean that, i mean i still ant to see you Blah blah"

point is im exactly where i want to be, not where she wants to be, shes even ok with me seeing the other girls im seeing, so acting afc can help you be where you want to be.

i really am big on telling girls im seeing other girls, it works well for me.

for sure!

I have met over 250 girls from sites like myspace and facebook..i dont know why more guys dont give it a shot!

here is the girl i just met a few days ago- she is a Show girl here in vegas and a model-.





here was our interaction- notice how she hinted about meeting up in her FIRST reply.. and I just ignored it- then brought i back around later...



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From: Kelly
Date: May 7, 2008 7:34 PM



All i ever did was cook you dinner and sing you love songs...

Seems like i gave and gave.. and you just took and took... haha

we have to work on this fake marriage if its gonna work out honey bear. lol

let me know how our pet tiger tony is doing.. and what the hell we are gonna do with the boat if we do split...

-your ex hubster.

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From: Girl
Date: May 7, 2008 8:06 PM


haha your freaking awesome youve got me intrgigued we should kick it you seem like a ball of fun well get along great


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From: Kelly
Date: May 7, 2008 8:12 PM



u seem like you might be a little ball of energy your self.. lol

how long have you been out here in vegas?

Maybe we will kick it sometime... as long as you dont try to kidnap me, or push me over (i'm on crutches right now)

kelly


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From: girl
Date: May 7, 2008 8:21 PM


yop!geeze ive been here forever like twelve years. your on crutches im sorry dude that sucks what happened?and yea i will push you j/k what about you how long you been here?




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From: Kelly
Date: May 7, 2008 8:47 PM


damn women! i've been here for 2 years... gone on the road for alot of it though...

My borken leg? i'll have to tell you about it when we hang out... long long story... the last part of the story is that i just had surgery and stuff.. so am on crutches for 2 more months... lol

So what the hell is your story...

What do you do?
where are you from originally?
how are you not jaded yet after being here for so long..
i mean.. your not like most of the other girls here in vegas are you? i mean you seem like you might be more fun-straight up..





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From: Girl
Date: May 7, 2008 8:56 PM


really two years where you from? k well im curious about your story so will have to hang out soonmy story im a model but mostly just for convention work here in vegas im just getting started and actually putting alot of effort to be scene and hopefully by the rite agents and agencies. Originally im from you utah. no not mormon. if you were thinking thatim not jaded because of my upbringing and im learing more and more to be true to who you are and want to be. ANd ya i keep it real lol:P


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From: Kelly
Date: May 7, 2008 9:15 PM



so you are a Jehovah witness? lol j/k

what the hell did you come to vegas for... i'm assuming the modeling work?

so couple quick random questions...

would you rather,

Be bald, or have no nose

have a shack on ocean front property, or a mansion on a small lake.

Have 1 year of amazing toe curling body shuttering sex, and then NO sex for 2 years? or 3 years of so so sex...

have to wear a spongebob onezee or a ninja turtle costume..

lets see what you got...

kelly





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From: girl
Date: May 7, 2008 9:53 PM


woe! wierd do you know me or something cause ya i was raised a jehovahs witness and im trying to get back to my faith actually. And i didnt come to vegas for modeling im only 20 came here when i was 9 so family.
Be bald haha b cuz i wouldnt be able to smell the flowers with hair or food im crazy about food.
have a shack on ocean front property der its the ocean surf every day.
Both that a tuff one sponge bob and the ninjas haha id say the onzee the for sleep overs haha
i love your random ? same to you i want to know your answers?:_)



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From: Kelly
Date: May 7, 2008 10:03 PM



I guess i suck at math then huh..lol I should have realized that when you said you moved here 12 years ago.. but he.. you could have been modeling for like JC Penny or something- lol

My answers...

Bald... Because I then I could wear one of those bob marely wigs and i LOVE LOVE LOVE food- and half of taste is smell

I would def have a shack on ocean front property - like back with my family in maui... that would be awesome!

Definitely the ninja turtle... cause then i have all kinds of options.. lol.. plus i look awesome naked with a red piece of cloth over my eyes with nun-chucks..lol


You are too fun..

send me over your number- i will txt you later.. I have to go write and article and get some work done online




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From: Girl
Date: May 7, 2008 10:22 PM


k its 702-xxx-xxxx be talking to ya soon!




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out txt conversation up to meeting

My txt
So whats your agenda today cookie monster?


Girl txt
Dont know yet something fun but nothing planned how about you shuga?

My txt
Gotta get some work done, then going to the LV 51's baseball game- dollar beer night! maybe i'll let you tag along! haha

Girl txt
OOO I'd love to- how much to get in and what time is it?

My txt
K u cant turn into a crazy drunk girl-

Girl txt
I'm naturally wild, no alcohol needed

My txt
It's $8 i think & at 7 o'clock but we are leaving around 630 - what aprt of town are you in?

Girl txt-
Summerlin (pretty far from my house)

My txt
Oh SHIZER! lol you should meet up over here and we can all cruise up together
(i did this so she would be framiliar with my house when we bounced back to it later)

Girl txt-
OK! sounds like a plan- i should prob meet up around 6 then ya?

My Txt-
No thats too early... dont wanna be stuck with ya that long!- lets do 6:03 haha i'll txt you directions in a few

Girl txt
You're silly, but i love it!

Girl txt
Would it be cool if I invited a few of my girlfriends?

My txt-
For sure, but they have to be fun, no hippo's or drama queens haha

Girl txt
K sweet! all my friends are fun!



She showed up right on time, looked hot as hell, and had cool friends...

I just continued the same banter back and forth in person, and she was hugged up next to me all night until morning.

I dont know why more people dont use myspace or facebook to meet women...

I did all of the 'pickup' work while i was actually working during the day...

try it, thats all i am saying


Kelly

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