I've been gamin on myspace for acouple months now but i cant seem to close. I've gotten their screen names but they never log on? So im probably guessin its fake... Not sure what im doing wrong maybe i didnt create enough attraction/comfort.. But anyways im talking to his hb8.5 and not sure what to say next.... well i know what to say to get the SN but it never works.

"well, this is a situation that my friend Chris is in. he has been dating this girl for about 6 mos and he really likes her. and then she tells him that she makes out with girls all the time. he's not really sure how he feels about it. on one hand, he thinks its hot, but on the other, he fears that he can't satisfy her and that they will never get more serious. my opinion, I think she should have been more upfront with him from the beginning. i'm big on honesty. if you establish the relationship as casual then its fine.
I like your take on things. I have to get some work done, but we should talk some more. do you have IM. let me get your screenname. I promise I'll only send you creepy inappropriate messages 9 times per day " -OV_Status

---- But anything before to create some more attraction or comfort???


Any ideas? i cant seem to come up with a good one.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Girl
Date: Feb 25, 2008 3:25 PM


ew thats just gross... you dont wanna be with someone like that anyways
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Me
Date: Feb 24, 2008 1:42 PM


haha idk you seemed upset... aight let me ask you this...... Take the same scenario, but this time the girl is making out with another girl, and lets say she does this almost every time she goes out..... would you consider that cheating?

-al

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Girl
Date: Feb 22, 2008 2:34 PM


ha i'm not sensitive about my hair. i just dont know why you would think it was a wig. and yeah of course i would consider that cheating no one deserves that to happen to them


----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Me
Date: Feb 22, 2008 12:45 PM

haha, sure its a question i didn't realize you were so sensitive about your hair! no worries,it looks fine...
Let me ask you a question... I need a female’s perspective on something...
Say this guy is dating this girl, and she goes out with her friends, has a few drinks and ends up making out with a random guy at the bar...
Would you consider this cheating?

-al

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Girl
Date: Feb 21, 2008 4:33 PM
is that even a question? of course it's my hair dumb ass.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Me
Date: Feb 20, 2008 5:45 PM


Are you wearing a wig........... or is that your real hair?

-al


-thanks in advance
ssman

It all sounds like canned stuff to me...

I mean in person that material would work better because you are actually with her and can build comfort but over myspace messaging, they don't really feel any attatchment. Once you get her replying you need to be a little more natural and not so stuck on routines so you can get a real conversation going. I think that will help you out a lot in screename closing and # closing.

Good luck

Yes it will, I did the routine once and got a s/n out of it, but I never instant messenged her because it was weird. The whole routine was a contrast to the way I talk and my personality so I just deleted it. lol

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