I didn't receive any responses to this in the general forum and then I found the online forum and thought maybe things would work out better here. I'll copy/paste the contents of my original message if that's ok:


I'm new to this forum but not new to the game. I'm 31 years old and I've been with numerous attractive women. I'll cut to the chase so as not to waste your time and this forum's space: I've always had really, really good success in real life and I've had decent success online.

As it stands now I find myself out there looking for some amazing women again and although I get a ton of views on my online profiles and they read almost every message I send, I get very few responses. I mean, I can write...well. I know the way the game's played. I separate myself from the pack and my photos are pretty indicative of who I am and I've repeatedly scored high in the looks department throughout my entire life.

I'm not a nice guy looking for help. I'm very much a vet. Am I perhaps expecting too much? I mean, what's a decent ratio when only targeting 9's and 10's? How many responses should I expect?

I remember being on this site several years ago and spending a lot of time reading and writing on here and I really respect the opinions of you guys out there. I was with a girl for the past almost three years and during that time I had several (and I do mean several) strong opportunities with 9's and 10's IRL and kicked myself the entire relationship for being faithful to my girlfriend at the time. She was about a solid 8/9 herself and extremely intelligent so I mean on one hand I understand why I was faithful but on the other hand I'm still kicking myself. Now, back out there (although not single yet) and only needing assistance in the online venue - What's the deal? Is this just how it is today? Have too many of us scored via the online route that women are just super, super skittish these days? I mean, how fucking original does a message have to be? lol

Thanks