| 1. GET ON MULTIPLE SITES
Understand that every online dating site caters to a specific
niche. Lavalife is for the young and hip, Match.com is for the
mainstream crowd, eHarmony is for the religious, Craigslist is for
the kinky, and so on. I guarantee that one site will be a lot more
fruitful to you than others, so it's important you get multiple
profiles out there and measure which site gets the most responses.
Otherwise you may be wasting your time on a site that doesn't fit
you best.
2. YOUR PHOTOS ARE THE KEY DETERMINANT
TO HOW MANY DATES YOU GET
The pictures hold the key to whether a girl is going to read the
rest of your profile. While women like to go off on a laundry list
of qualities that include "sense of humor" and "kindness to
animals," they are almost as shallow as men when it comes to online
dating. They sit back and watch the dozens of responses that come
in and take their pick of the guys who look the best.
But how about if you're not especially good looking? Then what you
should do is upload photos that show one of the following qualities
that women value:
Social proof. Upload pictures of you with other pretty women, which
acts as a stamp of approval that you are accepted by the female
race.
Adventurer. Share travel photos in exciting locations and in front
of famous monuments. Other good photos are of you rock climbing,
mountain biking, and bungee jumping.
Status. Here you want to upload photos of you with famous people or
shots in the VIP section of fancy clubs, preferably in Las Vegas.
Don't overdo it: only upload five photos maximum and keep the
captions brief. You want the photos to act as bait so she asks
questions about them.
3. LOG ON DAILY TO MESSAGE THE NEW GIRLS
You have to hit the sites every day to message new girls who aren't
already bitter and jaded dating experts. When a girl first signs up
to a dating site she is optimistic and hopeful, giving chances to
guys who she wouldn't otherwise, so therefore you want to be one of
her "firsts." In the site's dashboard organize women by how
recently they signed up and message the new girls before any other.
4. HAVE A COCKY PROFILE
Girls want guys who are already getting girls, so the last thing
you want to do is have a desperate vibe that reeks of no sex. When
you're writing your profile, here is the mindset that I want you to
have:
"I'm already getting women, so this online dating thing isn't
important to me."
Even if you aren't getting women, you want to subconsciously
broadcast that you already are, that you're just experimenting and
don't take things too seriously. Therefore you need to come across
as more cocky and aloof than other guys, as these things will be
more powerful in attracting women.
These golden rules are all you need to know to get the ball
rolling. Now it's just a matter of making first contact. Experiment
from sending smiley faces and simple hello's to cocky messages
like, "You seem like the type of girl who screens out guys all day
waiting for Mr. Perfect." Challenge them and when they respond get
a conversation going. Ask them for a date after they start asking
personal questions about you.
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