I was wondering what to do when you're the only one asking questions. I get lengthy answers and I can always come up with a reply ending in a question but she doesn't seem too into the conversation. How can I kick it up a notch?

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Tease her.

Question/one word reply/question/ one word replies ...just makes you look like a chode.

Bust their chops.

*Elephant in the room*

"Imagine if we had this awesome conversation in person, that would be mighty awkward, you ever thought about being a talk show host?"

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I've been replying with non-one word answers, that are relevant to what she said, and then asking another question, but I guess I don't exactly know how to tease or even be the 'fun conversationalist'. It's going to take practice, I thought I would get it down online, just so I can have good replies that don't take forever to think up. Best check out some negs then?

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Building rapport online is overrated

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I've only rarely straight-out asked girls on a date without building some rapport first.

I usually do some qualification, which serves as rapport. Girls feel a lot more comfortable meeting you if you want to know at least their name. Also, you need that before you get the number. You can talk about stuff in their profile if it is relevant to what you are going to be doing for some reason.

I just talked to a guy who does a lot of online dating, and he doesn't even exchange numbers - just goes direct to the date.

DON'T ASK QUESTIONS! PERIOD!

Questions suck the life out of a person. Would you like if everybody asks you the same questions day in day out? No. You are talking to this new girl, share your own awesome personality, show how awesome you are (NOT trying to show off) but more like your character, tell her interesting stuff, make jokes, tease her, be a bit cocky, be a challenge. Asking questions is the one way ticket for your own hand in your own pants to do what you have always done

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see, lets cut it..
online, by some means is even harder then day game(from experience). ***it is like hitting a hot girl at a club, many guys give her attention.***

looks is impotent, so direct game may fail you on the spot, some-times indirect may work, but some times not.(if she is not in to your looks at all making attraction via text game is very ruff..)
dont be hard on your self, it is a numbers game, you will find some girls which will like your looks, and the game will be way easier. just try.. read material not just for online, i use mainly same things i would use in a day game(believe it or not..).

I've been using an opener I made myself (I think) , I call it the Paradox Method. Where I ask them a question that is actually a paradox (the answers contradict themselves), it seems to work in terms of getting replies because it intrigues them, but then I have to quickly switch the conversation to keep them interested.

It was an experiment in itself. I wouldn't call it a total failure because it is very different than the "hey babe ur sexy " messages they get all day.

Believe it or not, a weekend of just talking to random people online has actually made my real-life social interaction go up a level or two. I'm new to all this but a little more interested in inventing new techniques than perfecting what is already out there.

The bombarding with questions was definitely a bad idea lol, it works for about the first few replies (in one case it went back and forth about 60 times which is way too much but i'm learning)

I just have to figure out how to word everything I say to keep 'em coming back for more.

Thats all i got for now.

~PV

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never, ever,ever(this caused so many women), try to build rapport online!
you have to build an attraction(beyond any resealable doubt), and only then move to rapport! (by then you must have her phone number).

the only time i go for rapport online is when me and the girl have live chat, or we exchange mail really fast, then i will go for rapport, and even set up a date while it is hot! (like at the example in the thread i have opened recently ).

more over, after the attraction, she will help you with the rapport, other way around most likely you are going to look try hard..

setting a date while it is hot, is the best option, but such a fast click does not appear to often(it will ones you are a pro), but i still take the phone number after setting the date, so we can talk, just in case..