the opener i mostly use that seems to work alot is "i saw you and i knew if i didnt at least message you i would be kicking myself all night.. im (whateveryournameis). alright i admit that was really fucking cheesy" what do you guy think of this opener? the last response i got was "but im a sucker for cheesy lines ;P that was cute im Eri. nice to meet you" and it went on from there. you guys try it out and post your responses here.

Tried it, shortened it, worked well

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amazing but i like mines especially if she tells her hobbies on her page, for example if she likes scuba diving i would say

"hey you look like this girl i went scuba diving with, oh if thats you im sorry for not telling you about the shark chasing us, survival of the fittest lol."

it has a 93% success rate lol and its easy to keep a convo going with it...if she say no then you could say "good she was a total bitch anyway hey my name is ____"

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Confirmed. I've been using this for a while now. I can say it works 95% of the time.

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I've used this and it got immediate results.
But idk what to say or where to take the convo after that to gaurentee responses, and # close.
Do you guys have any ways of explaining to me what to say after this and etc.

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I sent this out a few times on Plentyoffish but then looked in my sent messages and can't see any of the messages I sent.

POF seems to do things like that sometimes, inexplicable things that fuck with your mind.

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i just sent that message to a couple of girls and got the exact same thing? please let me know if it resolves itself?

I've just tried it a few times. Got two response already. Here's a more grammatically correct version:
I think the last part was one of OP's responses. But I like it; so it's included as well.

What should it be followed up with

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Yeah, same question here -what are the follow up options? I just got a response: 'Haha it's okay ! I actually like cheesy stuff'

Your next response ha to be something that doesn't come off as that guy who basically just wants sex. They probably already know that that what you ultimately want but you are going to have to start getting involved in the conversation and focus on the progression of it rather than the outcome. Do not be that boring guy that asks the same old "questions" be the guy who makes assumptions, even if they are crazy. If you assume and it's wrong, she will correct you and tell you what "she does for work" so in the end it is the same thing as asking you are just saying it differently. Sometimes after that opener I will say "so what do you do? Work, school, rob bums, beg for money on the corner? Let's hear it" although that is a question it is not a boring question and he will see the playful, fun, and confidence that you have simply from breaking the same boring routine most guys have.

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Sorry I forgot to quote my response.

I sent a second message to a girl which was humorous but risqué, now I'm looking in my sentbox and neither of the messages I sent (the first of which was "I like your smile") are showing. I sent the smile line to one other girl and that's still showing in my sentbox.

I think that messages disappear from your sent box if you've been blocked, although it seems pretty unlikely that five women would have blocked me for sending the message in the thread. What, five women are that offended by swearing?

So yeah, I still don't entirely get it.

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That really is the only line you put in the first message? I would fear that the girl would be like "WTF? One og those messages you can copy and paste and send it to hundreds of other women"

Isn't there a little personal touch missing? Maybe sticking to a hobby she put on her profile?

You're thinking too much. Like what RSD Tyler always says, "Just do". Just do.

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