Hi, I am very new to the whole PUA thing, so please forgive me if I sound retarded. I literally just opened and account on okcupid a few days ago. I have been getting a lot of numbers with the help in this section.

But now I find I have no clue what to do with these damn things.... Here is a recent conversation

ME: You seem really interesting, but your profile is a little vague. Tell me 3 things besides your looks that would make me want to know you better.

Sep 22, 2013 – 2:43pm
Her: I am many things, but I am not a liar. I don't take offense to many things; I typically just laugh things off. I was not born in America. Sent from the OkCupid app

Sep 22, 2013 – 2:54pm
Me:I like that response Give me your number, we should hang out sometime.

Sep 22, 2013 – 3:02pm
Her: xxx xxx xxxx





First this is where I left the conversations, should I be following up with anything like, "Thanks, ill be in touch" or just leave it as it is? As far as her number goes, do I text her? Do I call her? Should I wait a few days? Do I set up a date immediately when I do?


I would be grateful for any and all help! I have 8 numbers and not a clue what to do with any of them.

Text or call them and setup a date! Simple. Other advice would be meet them at night for drinks or something like that. Don't do some bullshit coffee date or whatever.

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Once I get the number I usually stop using the IM system, and transition to texting

Yes, if I were you I would quickly set up a date once you have the number. What you can do is wait a few hours and then text something that connects to the convo you had (e.g. if she said she was going for a run say "Hey how was your run?")

Then try to fairly quickly take it to plans. I usually go direct at this point (you met her on a dating website, she gave you her phone number, not a secret you might want to fuck each other's brains out). Best practice would be to take lead and suggest a time and place right off the bat, but in my experience even starting as "so what's your schedule look like?" or something like it has worked.

I usually pick a pub or restaurant in my town as the venue. There is also a nice park nearby, which is usually a good venue for escalation.

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Perfect thanks for the response. Ill let yall know how it goes.

Tell her you'll shag her so hard she'll be paralysed from the waist down.