Hey, I’d really like an objective eye on this last part of my conversation with a girl online. The background is we have been talking for a few days and I was telling her about a recent date where I went crazy golfing with a girl and why I wouldn’t be seeing her again. So I was wondering how next to approach this, she talks about not replying to me but she just has, I’m not sure where to go here.

Thanks



[Me:] Well she said the date was fun so at least she had a good time. It could have been worse, she could have been out with a serial dater haha!

The poor golf standard did contribute to it, I need someone with a bit of fight who can challenge me more ha!

So did you hear the news, aliens are coming to abduct all the sexy ass people, you'll be safe, I just thought I'd say goodbye now, I don't know when they'll be knocking my door....

[Her:] poor effort! I've heard better from the 40 year olds from krakoff via [dating website] lol. so far you've told me im a 'B', that i'm 'moderatly cute' and now that i'm not 'sexy' (eugh hate that word)- your such a charmer

treat 'em mean keep 'em keen eh?

think i'll just be mean back... i'll think about replying to you at some point, we'll se how it goes, maybe tomorrow, probably not :p

night x

don't talk about other girls.

your alien line was stupid

Uh, that line is pointless. You need to know when to game and when not to game. The fact you are talking for "a few days" means you are already totally fucking this up. The point of messaging is not to get her attracted but to arrange a freaking date. You are chatting her up with no purpose whatsoever which will eventually (or already has) come off as you being insecure and too afraid to just ask her out already. Stop the games and just ask her out already. Most likely, she will say no because you have been dicking around for days, but maybe you'll get lucky. After all, she did agree to have a conversation with you online which at least initially, means she sees some potential.

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Funny thing is...

She would of been interested if he were to be just AFC with standard generic messages.

Perfect example of how game can do more harm than good.

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Heh... it's from some text-messaging thread on these forums somewhere. I remember it, mostly because I thought it was a bad line myself...