I can only post in noob I guess. So I'll post here instead of online forum.

I'm not looking for any particular game theory. I'm more fascinated by the underlying psychology and communication involved. People in these types of forums tend to get this stuff more, so here it is:

This is from an online site. Girl is probably an 8-9
7.26 - 5:01pm
Do you mind being locked in my trunk for a few hours? I just want to make sure you can handle adversity. I like women who are resilient. Special Ops training is a bonus.

I am a ninja. At least I have the outfit for it. I can scale any wall and stalk you discreetly.

I am awesome. I am all the things you wrote that you wanted in your profile and more.

I know you are reaching for the message button right now. This is okay. I have this effect on lots of women. Go ahead and do it. I will check it in a few days. Blow you off at first. Then ask you out.

After our first date I will call you in 5 days. You can be my 5th girlfriend and see if you can work your way to the top spot. If you make it through the trunk thing I will know you're up for it.

Her: 7.27 9:11am

I may be up for your trunk as long as you are cool with me making a sassy outfit out of your flesh. It rubs the lotion on its skin or it gets the hose again...

Me: 7:27 9:28pm

Hahahaha. That was awesome. I figure if a woman can have fun with a message we are off to a good start.

So tell me about 25 countries ? How about in person? I love D.C.

I miss the city life after living in LA and NYC.

This Wednesday, Perigrine Espresso, 6pm.

If I like you, we go to dinner after at Pho Viet.

(my name)

Her: 7.28 11pm

Yes, let's meet. unfortunately, I can't do Wed. When else are you free? Do you work in the area? If so, we could always meet for a coffee during the day. I work downtown.

(her name)

Looks good so far, though I generally am not that gamey, but it worked. However, DO NOT AGREE TO COFFEE ON HER LUNCH BREAK. EVER.

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Yeah, here was my response:
7.29 at 9:30 am

I must be 5th on your list also if you are downgrading me to a day meet...

Just cancel your other date on Wednesday night. He'll understand. You found someone better. It happens

It's ok but at some point I would stop being so gamey... it can backfire if you go "over the line" by accident.

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I just wanted to brush off the day meet.

I figured if she realizes that was a bit of a snub, we're on from there.