As the title states. I met this girl once for a party she's a HB8 i would consider. A group of friends went to her pad, as a meet up place. I met her, and throughout the party we didn't talk since we were with our own people. After a few days later I added her on Facebook, she accepted. But I haven't talked to her since.

I wouldn't consider her as a complete "STRANGER" but I feel as though we are TECHNICALLY since we only had small talk and said our goodbyes. I want to start talking to her again but I dont know what I should open with. Already one thing is, she accepted me as a friend therefore she knows who I am.

Anybody can help me with this? Appreciate it.

Don't even bother dude.. That's creepy as fuck that you even added her. It screams desperation. Creepy= Unattractive.

Hey MajikalMan,

Sorry AKisbaked, this may go overtake your topic.

I've got a problem that's similar. I meet this girl like 3years ago, in a mall. She was handing out pamphlets, anyway I landed up taking photos with her and her girlfriends at the stand.

She added me on Facebook the same day. And posted the photos of us up on her profile.

A while went past and we stopped talking for like 4months and I told her something to the effect that, she thinks her shit don't stink.

She replied like 'ay dude what you talking about, I don't think that' . Then I see her at a club on New Years Eve Party, and when she saw me several times she would look at me and then look down.

Later that night I decide to greet her and she smiles from ear to ear, I ask her does she remember me? And she doesn't reply but smiles and hugs me. Then she goes to some other guys and they start dancing. Her eye pupils were dilated when I looked at her, but now that I'm writing this I think she couldve just been tipsy.

Even so, when I'm in her presence, I feel a sexual tension aura. I've felt this way about a few women and most have been right, but anyways.

She currently had a single status on FB. Now I don't know how to approach her, I still have on FB lol. But I have 2 issues, 1. My FB account is under construction due to terrible photos, and crap statues.. I don't even have a profile picture. Or any pictures up for that matter. So how you suggest I go about DHV for my FB acc? And number 2 is that she is extremely popular. She's like a celeb, but like a South African version.
She also has like 4500 friends/contacts, I have under 200 if I'm being kind. I just really like this girl, I've had sex with other women but I still think of her. Which is totally stupid.
Thanks man I look forward to your response MajikaMan.

And thanks again AKisedbaked, for not getting angry with me taking over your topic.

Any time I've ever heard a guy say "I really like this girl" he might as well say "I'm not fucking this girl"

You missed your window of opportunity. Keep talking to other women and if/when you see her again, you start over. You reinflate the attraction ballon.

hey Dabora
that girl you mentioned,was probably "hammered" or on drugs if her eyes were dilated.
one thing to DHV your fb account is have a good profile picture (eye-catching,intriguing and of your face!!!,dont be like one those people who upload an animal or a fucking car as their profiler,instant sign you are not confident of your image,be confident and upload a picture of yourself.)also don't put statuses
up about a shitty day or basically negativity,put up happy statuses about your day and end it with a smiley or .

right youve added her and she has over 4500 friends,shes probably talking to several guys and your speech tone has probably gone from exciting to super drag,you gotta reinvent your style of talking to her,stand out from other guys and be original.dont start with 'hi' or 'hello',be new and start with something like 'Sup bitch ' or ''hey its you,the party chick from that new years party '' when you are talking to her,remember there is no barrier to speech,"social freedom" talk about anything.First work on your fb account then start chatting to her,again

hopes this helps

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