Last year at this time I found this board and have had much success. Before that I was on Match and had a professional profile write my AFC profile. So I just ended a relationship due to the six month curse and turned my Match notifications back on and I am getting quite a few emails from women in their 40's and early 50's. I am 43. I had to pay Match to see who they were from so I am back on there. I have not changed my profile even though I am now open to some (or many) casual connections while looking for "the one."

If they are emailing me I figure they must be interested. What is a good response for a girl who I would only consider for a one night of passion and then we go on our way (ONS)? I would assume that you wouldn't talk like this right away or they would be more likely to flake. Would I even mention it before? or after?

Any wisdom or encouragement is greatly appreciated

You wouldn't mention it at all! Just arrange a meeting, and take it from online to real life. You don't have to tell them anything special, just say in on of your emails: "We should meet up sometime" then arrange a date, and close.

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Thanks. I just arranged one for tonight. She winked at me last night so this morning I texted her that winks don't work and she needed to try harder. After some chit chat she gave me her number and I am meeting her tonight at a nearby bar for a drink. Wish me luck.

Good luck. Sounds like you will do fine.

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