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| pimpcity | PostPosted: Wed May 01, 2013 9:42 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed May 01, 2013 9:32 pm Posts: 2 | | I've been on and off of match now for about a year, mostly on and can't seem to land anything but girls my age or older. I'm 37. Anything below about 32 seems to be a challenge. I've dated about 12 grils my age layed several of them probably could have layed most of them with not much more effort had I been that much more interested. I'm always told I look younger than I am. My profile is pretty short sweet to the point a little playful and cocky. I can get some responses from the under 30's but can't seem to get any meets. I tend to follow the quick one line openers and go for an number exchange or offer my number within 3-4 emails. Any info or tips would be greatly appreciated! My first post but don't go easy on me! Shoot straight!
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| Hunter_Foxe | PostPosted: Wed May 01, 2013 10:08 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Tue Sep 18, 2012 8:24 pm Posts: 2044 Location: Nottingham, UK | | Do you meet any women offline? Try to view online dating as a backup rather than your only way of meeting women.
Try day game, go to night clubs etc.
The problem with online dating is women aged 18 - 25 get like 100 messages a day and the hotter the girl the more messages she will get. If you don't immediately stand out, you will fail at the first hurdle. Don't go straight for the number close too quickly before building up rapport. Tease them about the age thing, use playful negs, use age disqualifiers early on etc. The quick number close works with women over 30 because by that age they're done playing games and they know what they like.
Pimp up your profile a bit. Watch Cajun's online dating tips on YouTube.
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| GKS | PostPosted: Thu May 02, 2013 12:38 am | |
Joined: Thu Jul 08, 2010 11:16 pm Posts: 1166 | | In my experience, if I want to game younger girls ( I'm 26 so my younger demographic is between 18 to 22 years old), I would do day game. The thing with online dating is that your age is included in your profile. They look at your profile and that number hit them, their mind quickly filters you out of their selection pool. Hence, they will be more than likely to biased about everything you do and less likely to give you a chance to success. It's not impossible to change their opinion but it'd take a lot of time and investments.
Now on the other hands, with day game, there is no way they can tell your age precisely unless asking. So as long as you first impression is good enough, they'll be more receptive to your game. Social status, the environments and your frame (those can't be display effective through online profile) will be a great help in this case.
The next thing to pay attention to is understand your target demographic: what they like to do, where they like to go, musics, etc... and plant yourself within their proximity. For EX: I like to game 18 years old girls. I'd go to the mall, hookah bars and few other venues that they like to gather around. Of course, it has to be reasonable venues so you don't appear to be an old creeper picking up on them. With that said, I can't really show up at a high school home party can I?
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