hey guys, i have been getting better with the ladies again. recently (the past 6 months) i haven't been so great and got into major depression but finally got the help i needed to get out of my slump. what has motivated me to get back to normal is getting my game back. last summer i was dating women every other week and i was in a very good place with my game, hence wanting to get that sharp edge back. i dated one chick for a while and my game deteriorated afterwards and moved to a new city which totally made me loose track of everything as my social life deteriorated too. finally i have made a come back as i have made friends. my confidence has also sky rocketed and i am back to having some sort of normal convo with women and people.

so passing the boring stuff and getting you guys to know where i'm at in the present i just want some tips on how i am doing with this chick. she is an 8, rock chick with a good sense of humour. basically i have got her in a place where she is intrigued to come out to York for a night out (she lives 45 mins away). basically i would like you guys to point out any IOI's for me. i feel i'm a bit blind at the moment. also, how could i translate towards her any sexual stuff? i feel that i don't want to do anything like that as i feel i could scare her off before she has even come to see me. i also think jsut being normal is the best way right now and escalate in other ways when i actually see her in person. another thing i am thinking of doing is keeping convo online to the minimum until i actually see her as i don't want to risk getting into the friend zone or anything. keep her imagination fresh.

anyways this is for you guys to look and dissect. this is for purposes for improvement and for anybody else who is going through the same thing as me.
it is very long but for anything that is good, bad then just go ahead and point it out.
it will mean a lot and thanks for making the effort. i hope this post helps out alot more people too.

Rachael Hall
Cheap cider can be really tasty though! York nightlife intrigues me. Is it expensive? X
Thursday

16:49
Ian Tennant
yeah itcan although i have been buying sainsburies own for 2 quid for 2 litres. i actually can't get drunk off it. i think rum only gets me drunk now, and tequila. i'm not complaining as this means i have good taste.
well if for instance i was to take someone out then evil eye would be a good place to start. any cocktail you want is there and a good way to get the day going. then head up to trembling madness. nice little chilled out old looking pub with a whole load of animal heads to trip you out. then after that anything goes. preferably stone roses bar or dusk. each place has a good SPAM. after that if you fancy a boogy then fibbers on a saturday is like vivaz in a sense but they actually play good music, really good night if you go with a group. every night can be different though but that is my 5 star nightout xx

17:13
Rachael Hall
It sounded so good! And then you put the animal head place on your agenda, and now it sounds like the worlds worst idea! would it still be a 5 star if you took the animal head place off the list? xx

17:14
Ian Tennant
i don't think they're real and it also does strawberry beer which is the key ingrediant to the night. but yes if i must then ok. i guess looking for an alternative can arise. seeking out new places. xx

17:17
Rachael Hall
What if you take strawberries out with you, and mix them with beer? (also what the hell is strawberry beer?) Hurray for new places! xx

17:18
Ian Tennant
the strawberry beer i haven't tried but a lass that showed me the place had it. it was a fiver a pint though. haha, the thing is that we can jut stay in evil eye n get slaughtered. a good game is to choose a random cocktail for each other. see what randomness you start off with. xx
Thursday

21:24
Rachael Hall
FIVER A PINT?! That is extortionate! Oooh that game sounds good! What if one is just juice though? That would be evil! xx

21:49
Ian Tennant
if it was juice then i would have to slap you im afriad actually saying that the bartender would probs slap you just for asking it at the bar it's the only beer i have ever encountered that is a fiver. maybe a quest to find the cheapest pub would be cool. just a huge pub crawl. get your ass over! we've got work to do! xx
Friday

13:08
Rachael Hall
This sounds fabulous! We should definitely do it! Can we avoid the places which string animals (real or fake) on walls though? xx

14:48
Ian Tennant
oh, making demands already are we? you came across as such an easy going person, shame on you! xx
Saturday

09:07
Rachael Hall
Hahahaha okay, okay, we can go to the animal place! I'll just drink my drink in the gutter outside with a sign with some clever words on it against the pub! xx
Saturday

18:00
Ian Tennant
one problem with your plan. you can't take drinks outside. what words would you put on? SPAM i'm seeing "i'm outside making a point where others are inside having a goodtime" xx
Today

03:34
Rachael Hall
I'll hide it under my clothing I don't know what it'll be yet, but it'll be witty and clever xx
Today

15:10
Ian Tennant
ok, i'll take your word for it. xx
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