Whether on Facebook, Tagged, etc. I get 80-90% reply rate. And these are generally positive, which as we all know are both good signs.

but after 8 messages or so, it fizzles out. I know to use witty/cocky comments, but it doesn't go further than that. I know also that the point is not endless messaging, but how do I extend it to the point where I can ask her out?

You're not connecting with the women dude.

It's like you've got 50% of the game sorted - fortunately for you its the hardest 50%.

How about just trying to get to know someone and talking about normal stuff? Ask her what she's into, what her life ambitions are, all that traditional dating shit. You'll get way farther.

You've already built attraction with your cocky / funny stuff so keep that going to the MAX but she won't go out with you if she thinks you're a player. You have to come across like you give a shit. The best way to come across like you give a shit is to ACTUALLY give a shit.

I always structure messages a bit like this:

1. Mention some shit she has just said and make a cocky comment about it
2. Ask her a question - make it searching, intelligent and heartfelt. You're looking for love right?
3. Say some other funny shit that hides part 2 in a joke / flirt. She'll feel the attraction but she'll feel the butterflies as well and that's what she's REALLY after.


Good luck.

If it fizzles out, say you have to go.

Then pick it up later