Christian Mingles, Christian dating sites or match.com and other sites you pay for? The reason I ask is cause, I. I am noticing a huge difference in the quality profiles. For instance, match.com, I lurk as I do on Christian mingle but, the girls seem cuter though, not quite hot. Still, they seem more real. Less fake profiles with imaginary jobs just, much less people there. Quite a few have sent messages however, free sites like okc or pof are full of pics of girls making out with randoms, bragging about sex or penis pics and attention they get. I am really turned off by it. I have a log going on body building. Dot com you call find. It neeeds to be updated. I might try it. I might not. I read bad reviews and constant payment issues after quiting. I don't want that.

If you haven't had luck on OKC or POF, then you probably don't want to use pay sites.

And by the way, the messages you get on Match.com are likely bogus and a scam by the company to entice you to pay for membership so you can reply to the messages. Just a hunch though.

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Yeah. I feel like I am cheating a bit. I just started to get success with okc. Some girls are weird. I told this girl I was busy and she freaked out. Started acting all crazy. Its not necessarily something I am happy about saying I try. There is so much effort toward cold approach. Seeing girls brag about attention is annoying.

I probably should have listened to you. I just want to try new things. I'll message a few girls but, I am not expecting anything. I am however regreting this decision already but, its another experience. I think you might be onto something with scams. Still, I won't know if I don't try. What is the harm? I do need to get better at cold approach.