Hi

Does anyone have any suggestion for building trust with women online?

I often find women that I meet online say that they don't want to meet up, because they are not comfortable enough with me yet. But I want to take it to a face-to-face meeting sooner than later.

Any pointers would be greatly appreciated

Cheers,

Paul

The more time you spend online talking to women, the lower the likelihood of actually ever meeting up with her in real life. My spreadsheet tracking over many years has shown this to be true.

Unless there is a huge age difference or other unusual aspect to the interaction, any woman actually willing to meet you in real life will say yes to a date pitch, even if it's a reluctant yes, after just 2-3 messaging exchanges. If after that you pitch a date and she still gives you a bunch of stuff about "wanting to get to know you better" (which many women will do), you need move on, delete her out of your brain, and go send out 20 more online openers to 20 new women.

"I would like to get to know you better before we meet up" is woman-language for either:

1. "I'm not here to actually meet up with guys. I'm just here for some e-attention."

or

2. "I'm not attracted to you and I'm not meeting up with you. But I do want to talk!"

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