Hello all and sundry,

I know this is probably the thousandth thread asking for help. So I humbly request the guidance of the masters. Think of this as initiating a future team mate to the fold.

Ok enough rambling, here's the situation, I've been having some ok success on pof, yet have hit a road block with this chick. She's not giving anything away in our first few exchanges and I don't wanna blow this one. So here is the content so far and her profile. Any feedback on how to open this chick up would be awesome.

Me 11/18/2013 10:11:17 PM
So how's the online dating been going for ya? Meeting any potentials, or just pof creepers?

Oh..... If your thinking about not replying! Not to twist your arm... but if you do not, I'm making a voodoo doll of u ! Then I'm gonna put headphones on it, and make it listen to Justin Bieber all day!

Ava_871/20/2013 6:25:45 PM
Ok, hi.


Me /20/2013 8:26:46 PM
Hi, I always love talking to people who are into reading. What is your favourite book of all time? That may be a lame question, it's as good a place as any to get to know you.

Ava_871/20/2013 9:08:58 PM
I don't have one


Thanks in advance

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..... wraaaaaahhh . . . . . Rrrghllrhll

1} Why do you go 'beta' from the beginning . . . "if you are thinking about not replying . . ." This sets the SPAM of "I have to lure out this chick to get her to talk to me." Well, na-ah, this only feeds princess behaviour. Like she's this really valuable pearl waiting in an oyster and who won't come out for just anyone, only to someone really special who is worthy of her who comes knocking at the door - she's so wanted that she will just blow off 4/5 guys who talk to her . . . This is the image you are subscribing to. Admittedly, the voodoo doll example was good. But, she didn't give any reply to it.

"That may be a lame question . . . but . . . " NOOO00!! This screams 'beta' - of course your questions aren't lame! Your questions are awesome and she should be glad you sac. some of your valuable time to open up a chat with her.

2} You write huge loads of texts for only "ok, hi". WTF. the word exchange has to be mutually proportional.

3} This original post disgusts me because it's so symptomanic of contemporary girls. You gave a vast lake of input that she could have replied to, but she doesn't. Proving again how unable most girls are nowadays to make conversation. Even if it was not to date you, but just to chat politely and have a nice time. Even that she can't do. And you throw out words and words of eloquent writing and she remains cold. This shows how diseased their hollow minds are. She could have gone into an abundance of points, like "so . . . you are a voodoo priest?" . . . "I take it you don't like Justin Bieber then?" . . . "To be honest I rarely if ever read a book. But you sound like someone who likes to read so tell me about your favourite book!"

But she didn't. Girls nowadays don't know anything about the art of conversation. You are wasting your time. I'll give you some reputation points in this forum so you can go out and hire a hooker.

Mr. Marville makes some very good points. Especially in online dating where rejection is so easy (It's a lot harder to tell someone to piss off face to face), there's just some non-salvageable cases, the ones who won't reply or who will reply with 1 or 2 words. The best you can do with those is tune them out and move on to the next mark, otherwise you'll just harm your inner game. Just keep thinking of them as a non-factor.

Otherise, Marville's criticism of your message was pretty much spot on, remember, you are the prize and they want you, not the other way around. You are doing them a favor by messaging them.