I followed dudes instructions and sent a bunch of girls the same message:
subject:question?
:hey, I was wondering if that was your real hair?
no responses.
Then on this site "Just say hi" I got a few girls to respond with the "I need a females opinion on something. This guy and this girl went out blah blah, " and I got some responses but when I tried to escalate and ask about them or whatever, they stopped responding. Oh well Fuck it

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Hey bro
I realised by now that your spending alot of time online , shit man , Im going through the same shit myself and beleive its not easy and its not gaining you any benefits either. So since were both on the scale Ill tip you on something that im going to do this weekend.

find a social event , and go there. whatever it is conventions , small gigs , parties whatever bro. And once your there apply the right opener .
Sitting here waiting to know what kind of reply on your openers none the less your attitude will not get you anything but frustration. Another good tip is layoff this material for a day or two get your head cleared out and enjoy the blessed life you have been giving, Im sure you have friends go out with them and just socialise.

PS: Again im repeating myself when I tell you Im going through the same shit , its part of manhood .

Personally, I've never liked the whole "is that your real hair" line. I do pretty well online, and have an opening e-mail that works about 40 to 50 percent of the time. The great thing is, I don't need to change it from girl to girl. I've posted parts of it on this forum in the online sarging section, but I don't feel like posting the whole thing as its my baby and it would become canned material if it ever totally got out. Check out some of my posts if you are having trouble, and if you really are stuck, message me and I'll help you write your own opener that uses the same themes as mine. Here's a response I got from a myspace girl I used this opener on (went out with her last night) to show how effective it can be:


Hey,

So heres the thing...your not the first who has used the term "personality" for my site and the fact that many others are bla and stereo typical. Which I think is so funny. To me myspace is to show your personality through a computer screen. It is to get a general idea of what a person is like without actually meeting and/or visiting with the person. If majority of the people on myspace are more like robots on their pages does that mean that majority of the people out there don't have a personalities? Or are they just too lazy these days? Thought to ponder I guess.

So tell me why you think I have personality? Of course you must have some yourself to post a profile picture like that!lol...but you don't list much about yourself so Im interested to hear about what your interests are besides going to school which I am sure takes up a lot of your time!

Well you defin. grabbed my attention and with all the other male robots out there who send me the typical your pretty, your hot.etc pick up lines I'd just like to say! GOOD FOR YOU...

Its early so sorry for the rambling.....I'll drink more coffee and be better on the next one!

Here's the thing bro...I can't go out right now. I was in a bad car accident and got fucked up so I can't walk right now. I'm stuck in my mother's 3rd floor apt with this laptop unable to sarge traditionally. So for now, it's the internet or nothing and I'm fucking lonely. I can't work, can't do shit. Just sit here all day, all night with my painkillers and the occasional six pack lol

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I know I read about you in another thread and I still persist on what I just said earlier.

Trust me its no different than my life. Going to work coming back home , then going to work again. and what my profession....its construction business ... no girls there and no guys my age as well.

Im sure you have friends that can pick you up and go out to some places. It does not have to be necessary sarging just go out change the mood your in.

PLUS PLUS !!! lay off the website here you will feel relaxed not to mention layoff the website your sarging on . If your dingo is all horny and shit , wank it off .

im sure this time will pass by we all have our shit stuck on our backs .
tc

Yeah, I do have friends but I CANNOT GET OUT. They can't pick me up because it takes too much effort to get me down all those stairs; it takes 3 people so if I'm going out, I'm staying out. I can't just go out for a night and come back

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