Here's a brief transcript of my first approach since being introduced to the PUA phenomenon. I'm new to this and I figure everyone's got to start somewhere.

The target in question is a girl next door 6; definitely worth a fuck. She's been on my msn list for several weeks. I initially added her from faceparty but I haven't bothered messaging her until just now.

Hello

how are you?

is that a pic of u in your work clothes?

An attempt at a neg.

yes

very sultry pic. u look nice in it although i dont think your hair looks good down

Another attempt at a neg. This is the pic in question:



Almost immediately she changes it for one in which she's wearing her hair up.

better?

Not wishing to compliment her (just like all the other guys) I ignore her question and move on.

damn, it's really late. i should be getting to bed soon

Nothing

i'd like your opinion on something. when a guy approaches a woman, should he approach her directly or from an angle

ye

i guess your keyboard must only have the letters Y and E on it

i have to go soon anyway

I set msn to be right back in an attempt to perform a takeaway. It seems to work as she finally blurts out more than a one-word reply.

well what eles u want me to say to tht?

hehe i guess there must be more letters!

well, i want u tell me the weather's going to be nice tomorrow

u what

i have to go an meet a friend in exeter to discuss a business idea

This was an attempt at conveying higher value; businessman!

She seemed totally uninterested and didn't respond so I blocked her rather than appear needy. I'll unblock her tomorrow and try again.

make sure she knows youre kinda joking with the negs. cuz u dont want to come off as an ass. but that is a pic of her in her work clothes??? weird.

well i dont think u shouldve ignored her question. u didnt have to really compliment her but it would have been polite to at least say sure or much better.

i think u used your FTC early. u guys didnt even talk yet.

when she asked what else u wanted her to say, u shouldve explained youre question again, but not dwell on it too much. because she mustve read it as directly from an angle (or one option) and just menat to say "yeahhhh sure???"

and the weather thing just threw her off after that. she was confused between the 2 topics.

and idk if its just me but i wouldnt have said business idea. sounds corny. i dont know if thats true or not but why would u block her???

ive never blocked someone on msn but doesnt that mean when the mesg u it says something like "this user has blocked you" or what? i wouldve made sure to at least say "it was nice talking to you but i gotta go." u dont want to make it appear like youre totally uninterested and dont wish to talk to her. but make it appear u have some interest, and she is yet to qualify herself to you. and she is not youre main priority.

youre sending her some weird signals man.

just my 2 cents. anyone else agree?

Apparently she works as canteen staff in a military base. I have a hard time believing those are her work clothes.
In retrospect I guess that's obvious. Doh... I guess you live and learn.
Lol no. If you block someone it simply means that you appear 'offline' to them. They have no way of knowing whether you've blocked them. It's a handy tool to use if you want her to think you're offline whilst you remain online to talk to others.

When she comes back online I'll open her again and report back.

ok, well, you can fix it. just keep in mind the stuff i said above^^^

i just play it casual, more like im talking to a friend but i emply the pua tactics as well. BUT too much gives the girl the wrong message and she'll totally forget about u