ok so ive worked with this girl for over a year now and im unfortunatly hooked on her like an addict. at first i had no interest in her in any way, then (assuming that being the cause) she started flirting with me. it was like going fishing out on the lake all day with no results then having a fish jump right into the boat. so i flirted back,but over time i have become dependant on her being the only girl in my life that im attracted to and comfortable enough with to run game on. and over time this has obviously pushed her away. we have had sex one time and it was horrible, she was willing enough to let it happen but not enthusiastic about it. and when i fucked her like a virgin with zero experiance she quikly ended it. we still flirt with each other still to this day its just that i flirt much more than she flirts with me. in fact it seems like im the only one of us still flirting and shes just content with letting it happen.idk

sorry to hear this man. quick analysis: your stuck in oneitis. google it up!
"just that i flirt much more than she flirts with me." very bad. she just answers you as beein nice. you had horrible sex, why would you want more? honestly i know its hard but as I see the situation, you put way to much effort on her for nothing. move on. next!

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thanks for the input man