Hey guys,

I need some opinions on how to better use FB to my advantage. I have like 20 girls on FB that I've met 1-2 times in the last 6 months that I never really talk to. Mostly friends of friends that I've talked to a few times that were cute so I added them. What's the best way to open them and set up a hangout/meet up (clearly not gonna try for a date cuz these chicks barely know me). I figure the longer I wait the less chance I have, but I have no idea on how to make this happen.

Any ideas on sending a PM or writing on their wall or what? I figure my best best is to tell them I'm going to X bar on X night and hopefully they make an appearance.

This is driving me nuts cuz I have all these untapped resources at my hands and no idea on how to proceed.

Thanks.

1. Dont write on wall unless you know them well, my advice of respect privacy

2. your hope with the bar will stay hope, Unless they're tottally into you which i doubt in this state

well my advice is screen their wall, write them a personal message of someting you noticed (may have to wait till she has something worth commenting) and like this try to open 2-3 topics, inclue some questions and funny stuff so she has something to respond. maybe do it while shes online on a evening so you can chat and build up some comfort. depending on the interaction going, id insert later a *didnt know you where that fun, we should go buy some eggs and throw em out of the car! are you in or do you chicken out?! *

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