I met this girl while I was out the other night - I was absolutely hammered and don't even remember getting her to give me her facebook but I did and we've spoke a little since. Had a nice bit of banter on one of my status' and I think she's interested but I want to let her know that I am.

She uploaded a pic of her in a Minnie mouse onesie with her little niece in a matching one and I was thinking of messaging her saying "hey you looked cute in your onesie but I think it would look better on my bedroom floor?" This would definitely give her the message that I'm into her but do you think it comes off as too strong? I wanna get her number and arrange to meet up from whatever I send.

Cheers guys - I love this forum!

'Hey I have a twosie if you fancy it?' Haha I'm only kidding don't use that.

My view on sending messages over the internet to women is, if you don't have the balls to say it to her face, don't send it. You will see it a load of times yourself, guys will be "too strong" with their flirty messages on facebook and when it comes to the face to face, they can't live up to their internet image. This may or may not apply to you. I'm just rambling now haha!

Personally I don't really like the line you have posted. Only because I have heard similar so many times and it can come off as a bit AFC.

Stop getting hammered if it affects your game so much!

Tbh I have very little game as it is - I am a total AFC. Started reading the game on sunday maybe and I'm hooked.

I find I have a lot of confidence when I'm drunk I can happily talk with total strangers. I normally get numbers quite easily when drunk but too drunk to k/f-close. Then I end up in my current situation. I plan to reduce my drink down as I improve my game/confidence thou. I plan to get down to safe drink driving limit (1 pint - 2 if out for a few hours).

I've seen loads of improvements just in last few days of having read some of the game.

My phone and net game is plain awful SPAM thou - struggle to project confidence and just end up making mundane small talk.

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Do you remember what the two of you talked about?

If you do then you should use 'callbacks' and any 'inside jokes' you two may have from the night you met. This usually sets a good tone and gives you a chance to set up another meet up. Of course flirt with her so she knows your intentions.

Na I have literally no memory of the night - I must have been a state. Surprised she even had a conversation with me at all :L

Thanks for the advice thou - I'm going out tonight so I'll try and make a note of things I can use as 'callbacks'

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Their is a thread somewhere on the forum about not drinking. You should read it haha

The best advice is to just keep the drinking to YOUR limit. So you look like your having a good time, you are having a good time but your not 'hammered'

It is hard I know. Once you get the taste for alcohol and everyone is having a good time, it is easy to get carried away. I've been their a million times but my best game is when I am 'relatively' sober