awesome, i will definitely keep your comments in mind for the future.
also, you guys are absolutely right about "saying the right things to the wrong person." here's another response that i got, but this time it is much better received:
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her:
hahaha That's tricky. I don't think that would be considered cheating unless the girl is bi and actually has feelings for whatever girl shes hooking up with. But I don't know, that could go either way.
Is this girl we're talking about your girlfriend?...because she's CRAZY! lol
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From: xx
Date: Jan 17, 2008 9:42 AM
interesting... okay well, let me ask you this, take the same situation except this time the girl makes out with another girl. she does this almost everytime she goes out.
would you consider that cheating?
xx
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From: xx*
Date: Jan 16, 2008 12:47 PM
Oh. Well thank you.
Yeah, that's cheating. Being drunk is the worst excuse... you still have control of your actions and if you don't, you shouldn't be drinking in the first place. Drunk words/actions reveal true feelings so maybe it's time for that guy to move on.
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From: xx
Date: Jan 16, 2008 11:39 AM
oh, don't worry. it looks good. you remind me of a friend from way back in elementary school
anyways, while i have your attention, i need a female perspective on something... say this guy is dating a girl and she goes out with her friends and has a few drinks. she ends up making out with some RANDOM dude.
do you consider that cheating?
xx
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From: xx*
Date: Jan 15, 2008 5:00 PM
um thats definitely real.
WHO ARE YOU?
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From: xx
Date: Jan 15, 2008 3:46 PM
are you wearing a wig... or is that your real hair?
-xx
i think she's hooked. i can probably continue following these strict procedures, show some DHV and get her screen name.
how would i go about building comfort through IM and eventually lead that to getting a phone # and meeting her? i think it'd be difficult to neg her on AIM. i really dont have any idea what i can use for fluff talk, push/pull etc.
thanks gentlemen