Alright, so I was in Boston this weekend for a small BROad trip, and a bro had this friend who went to a nearby college -She's a pretty smoking hott, fit (on the track team), petite chick with a great personality- we all ate dinner (all my guy friends and her) while my bros started being all chodey and trying to talk them selves up in a needy way. I just remained quiet and just added some banter when necessary. After dinner we all started walking and I sort of isolated her from the group (walked a little bit faster than everyone and continued talking to her). We talked for about 10-20 minutes, and she was telling me about good bars and clubs to go to, and I called her a trouble-maker for getting into bars at 19, she fell into the frame and argued the point and punched my arm. Nothing too serious, just some light teasing, push-pull type of stuff. We all parted with her since she "really couldn't go out tonight because she had to study". She's also 19, so she was worried she'd get to Boylston street and be stranded miles away from her dorm, by herself, with no taxi ride back. She seemed pretty torn at the subway station, but she ended up leaving, which was understandable. I went out with my boys and when I got back to the hotel, I saw she added me on FB. I wanna respond and keep a small little flame/flirt buddy in Beantown, but I'm not sure if that would make me seem needy/try-hard if I comment on her FB. Not sure if it was just a friendly add or she was semi-in to me (Side note: my other guy friends didn't get an add from her).

So my question is: Should I comment on her wall? I was going to write:

"Was this friend request sent when someone was supposed to be studying? Hmmmm"

Let me know ASAP, and if that's a good comment. I'm just starting out with this online sarge crap, so help me out!

EQ

This isn't really online sarging, you already did the leg work with this girl in person. Its not a cold approach so it should be quite easy for you. Just basically teat her online (in FB chat, etc.) the way you did in real life. Whatever you did apparently worked and she is definitely into you so just maintain your banter and such-like.

That FB comment isn't making me run for the hills in ecstasy but its not bad either, its a perfect of example of casual random nonsense you chit chat about.

The only thing I can really tell you is to try and not let the situation get too friendzoney. You're not there for her to complain about her boyfriends, etc. but you should already know that. Also since you have no physical interaction, touch, eye contact etc. to keep a sexual vibe going try and steer the conversation(s) towards more sex related topics. It doesn't have to be sex with you and her, just sex in general. Its the best way to keep friendly banter going while still maintaining a sexual vibe online.