I play in band, my singer is a 6ft 3, super jacked dude with long hair, a fuckin Fabio. When he walks into the room, all of the girls are staring. And this fuckin guy really knows how to play it, he's just a fuckin natural asshole, really ignoring them, and they are crazy for him. Now because he's in my band, It's often me and him in social situations. Alone, I'm great with women, I have alot of success, but with this guy around me, my confidence is gone because the girls are clearly more physically attracted to him. Any tips on how to overcome this?
Even though he's my singer, he doesn't care to wing man me at all, if he thinks the chick is hot, he's going for it, and if its between me and him, he's gonna win cause of his looks
How can I pick up women with him around me?

Please this fuckin bothers the hell out of me

This is all inner game here dude. The answer is not some routine or pick-up line, its to eliminate that negative and inferior train of thought inside your own head.

Unfortunately I can't help you on how specifically to do that. Only thing I can say is keep practicing your game alone until your natural confidence gets high enough to allow you to compete with him.

I 100% ASSURE you, its possible and you CAN beat him to a girl. Looks aren't everything, far from it.

If you want a real life story of game vs looks there's one in Jeff Allen's book, though I dunno if you wanna read a whole book for that alone its worth a read on its own anyway.

What's the title of the book?