Okey guys , HB8 girl from my town , saw me yesterday and today she liked some of my photos , and i liked some of her's , started poke-ing on facebook and all that , but i wanted to ask you , how should i open her - what to do really? I dont want to fu*k up this one .

Thanks.

If she liked your pics and poked you you prob have it in the bag already, Just dont be too eager

Ok I did my first chat with her , went good , if someone wants to criticize or comment on it , i can write it here.

Write it im curious

Friendly advice,
do not approach(live or online or wherever) with the ''I dont want to fuck this up'' mentality.
You may come across as needy and this costs. I fucked it up quite
a few times having this mindset, and the girls were initially attracted.
Just constructive criticism, peace.

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I'm guessing by the way you worded your message, you haven't actually spoke to the girl before, despite the fact she's in your town. Therefore, as a previous poster mentioned, I'm not sure you should have such an approach which makes this girl seem vital to you, if you barely know her.

Usually if I poke a girl and she pokes me back, i'll just message her saying something like 'did your mother not teach you that it's rude to poke? ' and if they reply (which 9/10 they will, saying something like 'haha, but you poked me first!') i'll reply to her ending the message with something like 'you looked quite cute in your pictures so thought it was only fair i got in touch. what're you upto nowadays?' bla bla, to initiate a conversation.

I do believe facebook is a good way of meeting new girls, providing you have relatively good 'online social proof', if that makes sense? The more friends, the more likes, the more photos of you having fun, the more photos with girls, the more wall posts from girls the better. It sounds silly but it really does affect the way you are perceived, whether people want to believe it or not.

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Great advices , I will be posting report tommorow , becouse I am really tired SPAM , (just got back from school) Thanks again , I am sure i will listen to what you guys said.

EDIT : I did great this facebook chat part , I think i will get it over in a week or less , was'nt so hard.