What's up guys,

Ok, so first of all, I am pretty much a complete AFC/chode who has (mild?) social anxiety. I'm 19 and will soon be a college sophomore soon. As I have been doing nothing this summer sitting on my ass at home, I have decided I no longer want to be a shut-in loser and plan to actually learn something that will help with me getting more confident with girls (and life in general).

So I have a pretty basic idea of my goals for the next few weeks until school starts again, basically just to go on a few dates (I've never been on a date due to my anxiety and have never been in a relationship), and practice some really noob/basic day-game stuff. Mostly stuff that will kind of make me less awkward/more relaxed and used to social situations.

Anyways, I recently made a POF account with a template I found on some online forums. My "ABOUT ME" goes like this:

"I'm a well hung, romantically gifted stud searching for a sugar momma who will lavish me with expensive gifts in return for giving her all of the amazing things her husband is too self-centered to make enjoyable for her. Car must be provided up front."

My interests are pretty random like: bodybuilding, sushi, karate, etc.
first date says: robbing a bank.
My pictures are decent I think (got 2 of em). I'm not a bad looking guy 5'7" or 5'8" asian and I workout 6 days a week.

I;ve been messaging the same messages to some of the cuter girls that in my area and I recently got this response within 3 minutes:

me:
hey, so do you have a job? I need a woman who can support me while I play video games all day.

girl:
whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat ?? lmao I work hard for my money. warehouse general labor. and it all goes to school. sorry you're out of luck.


She is a cute blonde chick (18 years old) who is about to enter uni studying psychology.
Anyways, both my online and real-life game is really bad lol I basically just started this stuff..any help on what I should respond, any other tips on how I should proceed in the future to maximise my learning (especially real-life game), etc.?
Thanks.

Alright so I messaged her back and here's her response a few hrs later. What she's referring to is in my profile, I wrote that I'm a 19 year old 7' tall black man with blonde hair and blue eyes. (I'm a 5'8" asian with black hair lol.). I'm kinda stumped as what to do next.

ME: what are you doing in a warehouse? I bet you can never get your nails done since they would be ruined the next day! $20 down the drain.

HER: your fake profile sucks hahaha womanizers who sit at home playing video games all day dont go to the eifel tower. lmao and are asian and white at the same time. hahaha wtf.

Anyways, I can't tell if she's using her strong bitch shield or if it's a sh1t test or what? any ideas? By the way, the photo of the eiffel tower is real and of me lol I don't know wtf shes talking about.

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your reply was weak, and not congruent to your profile. So she called BS on you. if you have a profile like yours you need to act like that persons profile 24/7. Asking her what she's doing in a warehouse wasn't congruent as you are suppose to be looking for a sugar momma... if she's working in a warehouse why are you sill talking to her? that is what she is asking.

Instead you should have made a joke about her current job and said something about how you can wait until the future when she can take care of you in the future.

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hmm yeahh I looked back at my response and realized it sucked lol. this online stuff pisses me off I swear it takes forever to get any girl to give her your number without thinking of ridiculously clever shit.

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I think your profile is a bit off, she doesn't seem to be taking you seriously. Try messaging 30 girls, see what your baseline response rate is. Then start changing different parts of it and message 30 more each time, see how it changes.

If you want DM me the profile and I'll take a look for you.

BScott

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Your profile is obv. fake, and even 18 years old girl get that.

I think your profile is way above your abilities to keep it real as if recall what you said about you, you might be virgin. Women smells that and you will be target of a lot fo shit tests.
Just my 2¢.

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Madonna

Yeah I understand what you're saying. I mean yeah I am only 19 years old and just starting this stuff. I don't even feel like I should be doing this online stuff to be honest since I have mild social anxiety that I'm trying to improve on SPAM. I'm not a virgin but I haven't had a girlfriend or anything before so if you guys have any advice on how I should start out (preferably not online), that'd be helpful.

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