| Met an HB7 on okcupid. below is bit of a long conversation that took place in 2 hours. In short, I used some PUA stuff l newly learned (I started reading "The Game" a week ago and learnt about the existence of PUAs about the same time) and it fucking worked. Met her and she actually was a HB5.5 cos she had some extra weight. None the less fuckable
Met her for an hour at 4:00am out side her office (she was working at night). started with a hug and a k-close that I initiated. then lots of small talk. k-closes 4-5 times initiated alternatively.
Now the problem was, though I sounded rougher and more alpha in the messages, when I met her, the nice guy in me kept trying to come out. I was nervous (more so because I met her online just a few hours ago and it was 4:00am outside an unknown place) and it clearly showed. I told her that her kisses were making me more comfortable so she kissed more...that worked. She said I reminded her of her 19 year old self and that I looked innocent, so I told her looks could be deceptive and told her how I'm not like most other Indian guys (yea, I'm Indian)
Now she said she couldn't get out of work too long, so I said I've got to go sleep and left.
I know she's not the HB7 that she looked like but a HB5.5. However she's still worth a fuck and I could use a f-close to break my one year long dry spell. Plus a good chance for me to practice being an ass-hole and get over the nice guy me.
I sent her a message "Hey cutie...it was nice to have met last night" this morning. Don't know if I should try to f-close today (Sunday) or wait till next weekend?
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me: how come all the fun girls are 14 miles away :/
her:Since when is 14 miles a long way?
me: cos its a 20 minute drive for a lot of uncertainty that goes with online dating. For all I know, you could be a 40+ guy
her: 31 year old female, just like the profile says. I understand ur concern. At least I've given u a headshot
I love ur body btw... I would love to do all sorts of things with you
Me: See now you are talking. I don't give my headshot to everyone but looks like we could be getting at something interesting here. What sorts of things are you talking about?...
.....10 minute pause......
Me : getting the feeling that it is an old guy behind the screen afterall
Her: I think not... it sounds like this has happened to you before
I have a thing for bodies like yours. Like guys who work out and take care of themselves
Me: I know that this has happened to someone I know. Only found out when he went to meet 'her', then ran for his fuckin life
Her: Well I get scared sometimes about meeting strangers too. Especially when they are too forwardSent from the
Her: Don't get me wrong I want to play around and all. But if the first thing a guy says to me is let's fuck. I get nervous
But since you're cautious too and admitting it, I feel a lot better about the situation
Me: ummm...thats an interesting point. So here it is, guys always like to fuck...period.
But I don't remember suggesting that. Just said you are fun.
... Life is all about experiences. Sometimes we experience something more memorable with a stranger than what we experience with our years old best friends.
her: I agree with u on thatSent from the
This is probably why I'm not too close to anyone
Jul 22, 2012 – 3:21am
I actually enjoy meeting new people. I just sometimes worry about fucking up and meeting someone crazy
me: here... this should make the stranger on the other side of the screen look more human
(_____________ a link to a picture of mine )
her: Shit I'm on my cell and that's not a link I can just click on
Report this
Her: Can I just give u my number and u can send me a pic via sms
Me: see we're building trust. sent it over
her: *** *** ****
me: I'd expect a pic from you too
her: Sure
her: No nudes though ok
Me: Sure, if that makes you comfortable. I like unraveling the mystery in person
Her: Cool... I just don't like ppl having photos of me, in the event that they decide to blackmail me
The rest of the conversation is over google voice, someone experienced on one of these posts had suggested this.
Me: Hey VideoAr******_1? 2:29 AM
her: You can call me **hername** 2:30 AM
her: But thanx 2:30 AM
her: MMS Received 2:32 AM
her: I have five tattoos btw 2:32 AM
Me: phone has a technical issue. Didn't get you mms and its not letting me send you one... 2:33 AM
Me: hold on...trying something 2:33 AM
her: Ok 2:34 AM
Me: lets see if this works 2:37 AM
Me: sent you a pic 2:37 AM
her: Haven't received it yet 2:38 AM
her: Oh ok nice 2:40 AM
her: Are u latino? 2:40 AM
Me: so you got it? I'm Indian. Latinos and Indians look very similar. Probably thats why they find each other sexy. 2:41 AM
Me: what about you 2:41 AM
her: I do think u are very cute btw 2:41 AM
her: I already sent one. The pic on my profile was taken tonight 2:42 AM
her: U are a really cute Indian 2:42 AM
her: Are u from India or are u second generation 2:42 AM
Me: thats great. got yours too cutie. Makes me more comfortable now. 2:43 AM
her: I'm glad u feel more comfortable 2:44 AM
Me: Indian. The next generation isn't made yet. came here over 6 years ago 2:44 AM
Me: how about you 2:44 AM
her: I'm what u call Heinz 57 white 2:45 AM
her: It means that my people have been here a long time and I have everything from English to Russian in me 2:46 AM
Me: thats sexy...best of all worlds. 2:47 AM
Me: hey...I'm going to head off in a few minutes....but dont think we should stop here 2:47 AM
her: I'm not going anywhere 2:48 AM
her: I am anxious to talk more to a sexy Indian guy 2:48 AM
Me: when do you plan on sleeping? 2:48 AM
her: Probably after I get out of work for a little while 2:49 AM
Me: chocolate and ice-cream are the best mid night snacks you know 2:50 AM
her: But I do plan on going down town later for art fest and I'm going to a concert tonight at Rock stadium 2:50 AM
Me: when do you get free 2:50 AM
her: 8 am, but I can leave the office whenever I want 2:51 AM
her: I'm just reponsible for the company till 8am 2:51 AM
her: What is your name? 2:52 AM
Me: ever left early for some crazy stuff involving ice-cream and chocolate? 2:52 AM
Me: ***myname*** 2:53 AM
her: Yup 2:53 AM
her: Where does one get ice cream and chocolate this time a day 2:54 AM
her: Hi ***myname***! What part of India are u from? 2:55 AM
her: I actually work with a guy from India. He's from Mumbi and he hates me 2:56 AM
Me: one gets it from my fridge. wanna step out for a quick crazy meet with a cute Indian stranger? 2:56 AM
her: Yeah that would be cool 2:57 AM
her: But I don't know about making a house call 2:57 AM
Me: I'm from Delhi. You and me...lets work on getting at him 2:57 AM
her: I can't go too far from the office 2:57 AM
Me: Thats fine. Lets see how things go. A little taste in the car would break the ice 2:58 AM
her: Lol that would be cool. He's really mean to me. I try not to judge people as a whole, but he really makes Indian people look bad 2:58 AM
her: Do u want to meet up at Royal Garden over on Route 4 and 95 and the Beltway or something? 2:59 AM
Me: Where you at? Lets work on making Indian guys look hotter in your mind 3:00 AM
her: Lol that would be cool. I'm actually in Woodlawn 3:00 AM
Me: Don't know that area. Kinda creepy. I can pick you up where you are too 3:01 AM
her: We could meet on ***** or where ever. 3:01 AM
Me: gimme an address and put in my GPS. 3:01 AM
her: This area is creepy... why I don't I give u an address to somewhere in a better part of town like route Catonsville 3:03 AM
her: I can come out a little bit and meet u 3:04 AM
Me: ok send it over 3:04 AM
Me: I'm usually sleeping this time. Hope its worth my while. 3:06 AM
her: ***** is the address to a decent place off Route 40. I can drive down there and we can meet up 3:06 AM
her: Give me an ETA so I know when to leave the office 3:06 AM
her: Now the pressure is on 3:08 AM
Me: 30 mins ETA 3:14 AM
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