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Thanks for the replies everyone! I've never done a BF destroyer before. Any recommended routines?
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That's situational, what is he like, what does he do, what does he look like, etc. The basic concept is for you to get her focused on him from 3rd person perspective so that she can start to pick him apart without her knowing that is what you are trying to do.
I don't like to mess up relationships so I don't do this sort of thing myself, but something along the lines of (These are just suggestions, change them up to meet your situation):
"He must be an amazing guy, I'm sure he trusts you completely"
"It is good that you have a guy who is not super jealous"
"I bet you love that he is always with you"
"I think it is cool that he does not mind you going out with your friends"
"I don't know how some girls allow guys to control their every move"
"I enjoy alone time, sometimes it is nice to be completely free of everything. Do you know what I mean?"
Work this type of stuff into regular conversation with her. Keep the conversations brief (just long enough to plant the seed) then let her mind do the rest.
Peace...