Main question - If you fell into the trap of asking boring 'normal' questions in the first conversation, how do you go about reopening?

So I spoke to this girl, and asked the usual "how are you, what school do you go to bla bla bla" sort of questions. She answered them all (which suggests there's still hope), even though she didn't really give away much in the answers - probably because I asked boring questions in the first place! I've now not spoken to her for a couple of weeks, so how would I go about reopening? Any tips?

Hey man think of it like if you were friendzoned. You did stuff that didnt get great reactions. The best way is to dissapear for a period of time and then come back cooler and better. For how long you wait to talk to her?, this depends on your relationship with her. If you just met her and didnt even get a day 2 yet just be cool when talking from now on, if you went on a couple dates but nothing too much wait about a week or so and if its someone you actually know then you might have to wait in the months, let your social intuition kick in and the worst that happens is you throw back the fish and eat the experience for next time. For what to say?, thats the game dude, just keep reading and practicing(you can start off with a text along the lines of you wouldnt believe what happened today, and speak with emotions.) Good Luck man!

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