Guys,

I'm not sure what's wrong with my POF profile (if anything), but I've NEVER had even one girl reply to a message or the chat! Not sure if I maybe come across as a bit too sure of myself in my profile, but it's still annoying that I NEVER get responses!

Any help would be much appreciated. Thanks in advance!

(My profile is all in French (I'm English but live in France) so I'll put the link on here, and then translate it.

Cheers fellas




http://www.pof.fr/fr_viewprofile.aspx?p ... d=31823854


About me : Don't smoke
Normal body type
City : Aix-en-Provence Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur

Details 29 years old.
Height :160 cm,
Atheist
Caucasian
Brown hair
Star sign: Capricorn

Interests :

music football going out
literature TV shows


Description :

I'm English but have been living in France for the last seven years. I speak several foreign languages. I consider myself to be somebody intelligent who knows what he wants. I'm ambitious, funny and unique!

I love reading and talking about literature. My biggest passion is football. I love rock, pop & also some classical music from time to time. I like having interesting and serious discussions, BUT I love going out partying and having fun too!

I've already faced (and succeeded in overcoming) quite a few challenges that life has thrown at me, I'm pleased with the things I've managed to accomplish. I'm looking for a beautiful woman to share happy times!

I'm looking for a serious relationship.
I have a university degree.



Dating Ideas :

Having a coffee or a glass of good wine & talking about all the great things that life has to offer and having a good laugh too! I love meeting new people!


(Sorry this was long!)

I forgot part of my profile :



I'm looking for a serious relationship.
I drink (less than 3 times a week).I don't take drugs.
Dont want children.
I'm single.
No pets, no, car, no kids.
Profession : Translator
Longest relationship : less than a year.

Cheers guys!

Give me an example of the kinds of messages you are sending girls!?

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Basic translation from French :

"Hi!

I'm English, but have been living in France for quite a while. Your profile intrigues me, and your photos are pretty cute too, so I'd like to know more about you. Message me back if you'd like to chat!

Your new favourite Rosbeef!" (It's a silly nickname the Frenchies use for us English guys! Dunno why really! So I just used their nickname as a joke.)

Cheers for any help & advice!

I don't game any French women, but I am sure that they have the same instinctive reactions to "Alpha" type guys. You profile as well as your messages are pretty mundane. Additionally, your photographs need to show an exciting and happy lifestyle.

I was chatting with a guy on here yesterday that is French but living in England and having the same type problems as you. I will try and find him and get the two of you talking as you both have information that would be helpful to the other.

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Crypto...
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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

His name is FreddyP and here is a link to his POF post

learning-from-pua-pof-profile-advices-vt137622.html

Read it and then yall can PM and see if you can help him with English women and he can help with the French babes!

Peace...

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Crypto...
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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

Thanks man! Much appreciated!

hehe funny you mention that. I was just finding this reverse situation quite amusing.

I agree with crypto you profile is a bit too segmented, like a Cv paragraph and you use a lot "Je" as well (But if you look in my profile you might notice i'm the extreme opposite so i'm probably not a good judge.)

I don't know which type of girl you are targeting, but considering your location some girl might look more for bulky latin guys :s. I think you can use this difference at your advantage.

It's funny because thinking about how to improve your profile/messaging actually give me leads to improve mine as well lol. I'll continue this on PM

But honestly English skin at Aix...Sorry dude

Once ya'll figure out some good ideas post them here! This would be a good thread for people in Western Europe who are on this Forum! Keep me posted for sure...Thanks!

Peace...

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Crypto...
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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

ok we'll do

I would delete that 3rd picture RIGHT NOW!

your average boring profile and average boring emails are getting you boring average results. average results mean no results when it comes to PUA, online or off.

Pickup is on a Perato curve, online you need to be in the top 20% of guys that "get it" to be successful, the boring average fodder gets ignored by all but the ugly, old or fat.

and as I told freddy, for Croms sake get some pictures with some hot chicks or high status males, all those solo pictures make you look like a anti-social loner

Lie about your longest relationship. At least 3yrs. You're almost 30, and that's a red flag. Women will think there is something wrong with you. Either nerdy or a total asshole are the first things that will cross their mind They'll draw conclusions no women want to be with you for some reason.

Thanks for all the feedback fellas!

I understand what you're saying about my photos & messages, so will work on that. However, I'd just like to point out that despite being alone in my photos, I DO have plenty of friends, both male & female, and I consider myself to be very sociable...

I DO however have a physical disability. I know that it's not the ONLY reason I don't get success, but I honestly believe it hinders me HUGELY! I've even seen girls "eye fucking" me when I've been sitting down and they were unaware of my disability. But then I've seen the look on their faces change in a flash as soon as the crutches come into view! I'm fine with my problem, hot girls just don't seem to be (99% of the time).

D-Mans advice on the relationship length was really good.


Bro, no one is doubting your social prowess, we are just talking about what a girl sees, not what is actually true. I dont have an active social life outside of pickup but I dont reflect that on my profile.

As far as the disability thing goes I dont doubt you there either, just another obstacle to overcome.