I've been testing things out while bored since back in 2006 in the MySpace days, and I've come up with the perfect canned material. It's all basically copy and paste from the initial opener to closing for a number. Tested on fb, dating sites, dating apps, and you'll get at least a 70% response rate. It's all about persuasion. Where that comes in hand is making the girl feel like she has to work for your attention, unlike a lot of guys who try to comfort her without attraction or seduce without any comfort. Theres a lot of loaded questions pointing towards an initial response and seems like a natural convo.

NOTE: You do still need the other qualities on your profile/wall to convey someone she wants to know. We all know the basics, no shirtless pics, and a eye catching profile summary. Mines fits my personality, a couple party pics where I'm in the attention without seeming like it. I have no pics with girls on dating sites, you can convey pre selection through attitude without putting it in their face. Travel pictures, and just fun pics. I do have a mirror shot, and I have a few girls on the dating apps put up pic comments. Girls of value.

As for my profile summary it follows along the lines of being the life of the party, one everyone knows, leads those around me and look out for those i care for. Ignore these socially awkward chumps and let's chat, they wouldn't know what to do with you anyways... Very summed up but confident, leader, provider, fun, but not sloppy. All very attractive qualities. You dont need to put that but be sure to add some substance, what would say if you had to introduce your best self to someone your trying to be friends with. Go in with that idea and youll be golden.

Now time for the material....

1///The opener is "hey! Dig your profile, you look fun... Or maybe just trouble, havent decided yet "

Could lead to 10 different directions. It's all on how its read.

2///You'll usually get "both","fun", "trouble", things like that, or even "thanks" you usually get more than one word responses but you get the idea

With these messages respond with "Haha better not disappoint "

If they respond with how do I seem trouble? Just say "its just a feeling, better not disappoint " it leaves her thinking about herself

NOTE: I know some people don't like to use smileys but i do because it helps show that you arent being serious, since there's no way to convey body language this is the safest bet imo. Use Hahas and lols also. Don't second guess it. It's all about persuasion and being playful.


3///Next she may say "never " that's when you can say "that's exactly what i like to hear well have to see of you can handle me, I might be a little too wild for ya "

If they say lol go into the handle me line and straight into "tell me what you like to do for fun"

4///After she responds say yeah were gonna have to see, all I know is you better look cute for me

5///After her response ask her what her best physical feature is

6///No matter what she says, say you like one of em, then add two more

Example, eyes and legs... "Hell yea, I'm more of a short girl with beautiful eyes, a tight tummy, and nice ass kinda guy, 1/4 ain't bad "

Naturally she's going to push she has more of those features.

7///Then you respond with "Hell yea you'll have her show you when you party "

8///Then you go into asking about each feature you stated

9///Then after you've raised enough attraction and tension to Exchange numbers and begin texting game.

NOTE: Be enthusiastic, enthusiasm just as negativity is extremely contagious. Be sure to use a lot of Haha's in the beginning of your messages especially if shes saying Haha or lol.

This has been tested and tried for the last year and a half. It's gone through a bunch of changes, I've cut out all the bullshit filler convos, and jumped straight into the meat of it without coming on too strong.

Again these messages are just completely loaded questions looking for responses, and best of yet, your obtaining a bunch of info you can use in later convos and get comfortable with you.

These work with every kind of girl.

Another simple game if she begins to fall back, tell her about the game. Explain you help your friends out with social circles and women, and explain how the nice guy comforts too much without attraction, comes off as creepy and needy because she did nothing to attract him

The player who tries to seduce too quickly without any comfort, pisses off the friends and even the girl, usually goes after girls who are alone, come off as cocky insecure and perverted, so they get thrown out

And the almost perfect, the guy who did everything right but never seduced, so when it comes time to and he tries, it gets all awkward like a high school date.

After their response I'd add how you know a little bit about a little bit, the difference between you and them is you say no more than you say yes, unlike most guys who take what they can just get, and that means a lot more to you to have the ability to choose who you talk to. Makes her feel good that you chose her out of the girls you've shot down.

The girl will agree and that alone will be extremely attractive, you dont even have to have game, say that, and you will instantly become attractive.

I've actually gotten laid off that alone "oh wow, your smart, that's sexy" before you know it she was talking about giving fire head..

It's all about connecting points and making her work for your value.