Recently i have become quite attracted to older women and when i say older i can mean pretty damn old sometimes (say between 30-60). What's odd is that whenever when i'm out on a night out for example or out usually in town i'm always attracted to people my age of 20. But this changes when i'm in private. Still find those very attractive but prefer to you know what to older women. Don't know why. At first i was really confused and weirded out but i guess i'm accepting it now sort of thing as like whatever... I'm only attracted to these older women for sex. Proper dating for relationships are only for people my age, but i just find the whole sexual part of being with older women really a big turn on...

So which sites do i visit for this? Any forums or is it just dating sites? So many are paid or really confusing so don't know what to do. Thanks guys. Remember as said i don't want anything serious at all with said older women, just something causal...

Just use OKCupid and POF and filter by age. Simple! And don't feel guilty for your desire. As long as you are both consenting and legal, go for it.

I'm also in to older females, but if you're 20 and you want to date and bang hot
35-50 year old women (the older they are, the more likely most are, to have kids) who still exercise, unless they say in their profile they want to hear from younger guys, you'll mostly struggle to get an older female on PoF to want to meet in person and/or to reply back.

Even if any even reply back, the large majority will say they're not after someone of your age and others also often put an age range filter at the bottom of their profile. The majority you message in the above age range, won't even reply back to you.

You're much better off joining Date A Cougar and/or Cougar Life, that are both pay based. CL has some fake profiles mixed with women that are definitely real, but if a lady only has 1 pic, or the 1 or 2 pics she has on her profile look too
'good', request that she send a pic taken on her cell phone, or request to speak on webcam. If a lady doesn't want to oblige with either of those requests, move on to a lady who's real.

I got a reply on POF from someone and she gave me just gave me her number and said she is definitely interested in casual. Shall i just text her? Don't particularly want to phone, as i hate phoning in general anyway and at least by text you're getting to know that person a bit and can arrange a meeting... What shall i say in the text? And also for arranging a potential meet it would have to be at hers, or not at mine anyway. What's the best sort of meeting place? Don't particularly want to be going out in public with someone on a kind of date with someone who's far older than me for obvious reasons really... But would meeting at her house be too much right away. What about meeting at a landmark, having a walk, going to hers? Obviously looking ahead a lot here, but regardless need to know what to do if i do this in the future anyway with someone else. Thanks....