Last month I messaged back and forth with an aloof HB9 for about 1 week, asked if she would like to trade numbers she declined, then the conversation fizzled.

Re-contacted her a few days ago. The following ensued: --------------->

I would appreciate any input. Next course of action?

_____ 4/19/2012 11:29:37 AM
Hey, how's it going?

_____ 4/22/2012 11:43:04 AM
Hi! Life is OK. Lots of crazy stuff going on. How have you been?
*n*

_____ 4/22/2012 11:59:19 AM
Last month I bought a motorcycle - it's become my new girlfriend, but she doesn't mind if I cheat.

What is going on that's crazy?

_____ 4/22/2012 12:24:37 PM
Motorcycles are scary! But I suppose it's a cheaper ride. Lol!
I've been dealing with a lot of loss in past few months. Had to put my horse down. Had him for 21 yrs. Then one of my best friends died in a car crash. Now my grandma died. Got a second dog. Probably not what you expected to read eh? I've got a lot of redefining to do in my life! Partly why I figured I'd stop hiding here.

_____ 4/22/2012 12:40:23 PM
I'm so sorry to hear that. Down the road, when you've redefined what you need to, maybe then we can become aquainted.

[showing I am empathetic, not trying to fill a void, also not too eager, have other options etc..]

_____ 4/22/2012 12:47:35 PM
Redefining is a long process. The hardest part is not being a horse person anymore. But it gives me more freedom. So you've changed up your profile since we last chatted. Have you been having good or bad experiences on here?

_____ 4/22/2012 12:59:47 PM
Both.

I'm not going to beat around the bush. I think you are unique and I find that desirable. These Emails are so impersonal. I would like the opportunity to take you out for a drink and meet you in person. I think we'd hit it off great. You are welcome to message me back here or at XXX-XXX-XXXX *****

[a pua member line, mixed with my own. it worked!]

_____ 4/22/2012 8:22:33 PM
I'm XXX-XXX-XXXX.
Maybe I'll shoot you a text in a bit. I'm currently doing housework & attempting to find places for stuff I inherited. Hope you are having a nice day!
*******

She texted me the next day (Tuesday) We exhanged lighthearted flirting. Then no contact for two days.

Today (it's Friday), I text her with an opener from "Text Game" here at PUA (thanks!), and follow it up with:

"I was wondering if you know any tall, single brunette who would like to meet me for a drink tonight or tomorrow evening." I love that line - it never fails, bro's.

Set up a date, for tomorrow. Will update Sunday with results.

I cancelled the date...chest congested and stuffy nose. She said cool maybe next weekend.