This girl and I have met once in real life. She used to tell me that I was the perfect guy for her and shown alot of interest in me. But lately things have been on very shaky ground between me and her. And shes now talking to other guys on SPAM other than myself. And shes becoming really close with some of them. They are becoming really good friends. This girl recently told me that her phone had broken and therefore she could not message me. And her head phones were chewed up by her dog so she couldnt go into a SPAM call with me. To cut a long story short, I was a little too needy. She still "loves me". She talks with other guys alot more than myself now and she has shown incredible amounts of interest in them. I still like this girl alot, but it's difficult now. I cut all contact yesterday by sending this to her:
"Hey there. you Do Understand that I'm really into you quite alot. and I would love to go exclusive in our relationship, but I just feel right now like you're in a place in your life where you need to sort some things out. You do mean a lot to me, and I hope it's likewise, but I don't want to be a "rebound" guy. It's not fair on either me or you.. I want you to take some time to do what you need to do. Sort your problems out with your mum. Get your life sorted out with all these online lads. And if they do mean more to you than I do. Then good luck with it all. I hope it does all turn out for the best. Just get back to me when you're ready to start a fresh. I'm very serious about this. I don't want to talk to you until you're sorted out, not because I don't care about you. but It's just because I want to give you the time you need to focus on us. without any distractions. Get back to me when you're ready and In a better place xx"
My question is, how do I recover from this situation, and what must I do to game her back into my hands and set up a day 2?

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Alex, Pimp in training.

Whoa. Stop. Just stop.

If you would have just done a "freeze-out" and let it be, that'd be okay, but you poured your heart out to her. There's a time and a place for that, and it's NOT when she's interested in other guys and already has you on the fence of the friend zone, this close to pushing you in with all the other black sheep. Sorry man, I think you might have screwed this one up for a good bit. Leave it be and MAYBE