I'm just wondering, how do you set yourself apart when chatting on-line places such as 'bebo' or 'myspace'?

I am using these sites at the moment to get msn addresses so I can practise techniques so they will be more natural in a live environment.

It seems that everything (the judging whether to accept an add) is done on looks (which is fine for me as I am not that bad) I am just wondering how to make a more interesting start rather than just saying 'hey, how are you.' etc like everyone does! Or just complimenting her looks like most AFC would do!

What I'm basically asking is for a few conversation starters that make you different and more interesting. I was just thinking that asking their opinion on a random issue 'whether your mate should ditch his girlfriend for cheating' would probably freak them out a bit!

Also, have you any ideas how to make your profile more exciting, so that girls literally come to you and want to add you rather than the other way around?

Thanks

Andy